It wasn't until multiple texts on Twitter that we both came to an understanding and now I feel like we have respect for each other.
Texts in private vs public posts. Can you not see how different those two things are? Only one of them means anything to anyone but you.
Simon, I get your point, this is your online home and being respectful is your number one policy. Taylor was not at all respectful that day, even Taylor agrees with that now. Sometimes a second chance is warranted.
And yet their public posts, trying to rally a mob to retaliate, are still there. So they don't feel so different that they will actually do anything meaningful ...
Do you not imagine that people like this haven't perfected ways to be manipulative to get what they want? You give them what they want, but they don't change or do anything.
You were played.
But what freedom of speech and expression would Taylor have trampled on if she asked you politely to modify pronouns directed toward her?
Again, step back further. When do people's pronouns typically come up in any discussions we have? What have they todo with this topic? Never, and nothing. So why even ask?! If you want to take part in a discussion, take part as a regular poster. Don't arrive like the Cool Aid man and then complain that people treated you differently - you forced them to!
The majority of people on this site are anonymous. All we know about anyone is what they tell us, and if someone says they are "he" or "she" that is what people then use. That's all they had to do, but they didn't. They wanted to make some LGBTQ issue out of nothing, for no other reason than to be disruptive.
Also, you don't have the right to say anything you want on this site or any site. That is not how freedom of speech works.