I am a sexual being, and my sexuality is not an abomination or something that needs fixing.
How does that reconcile with his claim of having his sexuality 'tampered with' ("show us on the doll where your belief system touched you ...")
Either it needs fixing or it was tampered with, unless the tampering made it 'perfect', in which case what'd the complaint about the tampering exactly?
This is a perfect example of how Lloyd says things, that are convenient at the time, but they don't form a cohesive whole and are contradictory.
As for why he told Kim? Grubby people like him often seem to get a kick out of telling others (especially women) how grubby they are.