Hylandyr,
you make a good point. I often feel guilty if I raise my voice at my parents, despite the fact that they are saying the most hurtful things to me. If it was anyone else I wouldn't have a problem telling them where to go!
LyinEyes: I too was rejected by my biological father, but not via the borg. It hurts no matter if religion is involved or what. I advise you to tell him how you feel. After 20odd years of being upset about my abandonment by my dad, I finally phoned him up and told him how I felt. I told him and asked him WHY? He gave some answer, and he was sincerely hurt and realised his mistake. Only a few months later he died suddenly, and I was glad I'd managed to tell him. Even if he doesnt change, you will have said it.
Sirona