Posts by Skeptic

supposingly good dubs, who want their cake with extra frosting on top, so to speak.... me being one of those girls, who fell in love with the wrong guy--knows exactly how they feel--one way or another they've gonna get hurt, and i think i've replied with the "run for your life" type statement--in truth, it is really the only sane choice.

i know why we fall helplessly infatuation w/ these dud's--they're charming, well mannered, well dressed, kind, innocently sexy, they look great in a suit, and i guess, in my case, i used to invision myself taking off his suit: first the tie, then unbuttoning his shirt with my mouth, and well--okay--i am again meandering off the path.. here is my question and it is for all the male jw's that may read this: if you know it is wrong to get involved with worldly women, then why do you pursue us?????

Skeptic

butalbee,

I missed you and worried about you so much. Why didn't you answer my emails? Also, have you noticed that the Sex forum dies when you are not posting? You post the coolest threads.

One mistake that people make is that they think that all JWs actually follow the JW rules. This fallacy is promoted by the Witnesses themselves, even the ones that know better. So it is no wonder non-JWs get confused on this issue.

The truth is, many JWs do whatever the hell they want, just as long as they dont get caught or will not get much trouble if caught. I know one JW who is a rapist, a fornicator and cheats on his taxes shamelessly. But he will destroy any Harry Potter toys his kids have. Then take them to the Harry Potter movie.

To be a JW in the real world, you quickly learn to be a hypocrite in many ways. True morality is not instilled in JWs, because they are not taught to think for themselves.

Richard

Edited by - Skeptic on 18 June 2002 16:21:37

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Disgusting JW Funeral story

by PopeOfEruke in

i heard of a funeral held for a sister last week in a kh.. her non-jw daughter-in-law write a poem for her, and wanted to read it at the service in the kingdom hall.

the d-i-l had studied many years ago but was never baptized.

however, because she was wearing slacks, she was refused to read it from the platform and had to read it from her seat in the audience.. how low can you go?

Skeptic

Nothing personal about the deceased was mentioned.

Even when I was a devote JW, JW funerals made me ashamed to be one. At every JW funeral I attended, I could take the name of a brother or sister in the audience and substitute it for the deceased's name. The talk always fit perfectly.

My worldly relatives were always disgusted at the Witnesses whenever they attended the funeral. They could tell the funeral talk was just to promote JW beliefs to a captive audience, and that zero concern for the deceased was shown.

I have heard that not all JW funerals are this bad, but all that I have attended were. The funeral talk was always canned, with blank lines for inseting the deceased's name. Any dead body in the casket would do, as long as it brought in wordly people to be witnessed to.

Richard

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I have a dumb question....

by SpiceItUp in

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ok i have been reading and posting for a couple of weeks and love it here.

i noticed some terminoligy that i hadn't come across before when speaking about the jw's.

i get calling them the "borg" - i am a star trek fan (lol..i think its funnie) but i still cannot figure out why they are called "dubs".. can anyone explain this to me please?.

Skeptic

Never be afraid to ask dumb questions. In my first contact with Windrider, I asked her a really dumb question. Because of that, I found my soul mate.

Richard

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the distance thing

by wonderwoman77 in

well i have not posted this on here yet, but i went and met that girl and we had the best weekend.

it was so amazing.

everything felt right about it.

Skeptic

wonderwoman77,

I am so glad it worked out for you. I was hoping you would meet someone special.

Speaking from personal experience, for the right person, it is worth it. The distance can be worked around, if one or both are willing to make the needed sacrifices.

If you need any advice or a listening ear, my email address is [email protected]

Richard

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Is Sex Just Sex, or is Sex making love?

by butalbee in

okay, my ex says that sex is just sex, it isn't love.

love is deeper than sex, and sex is just to feel good...he also says that love is an entirely different thing, and if i think having sex has anything to do w/ sex, then i am crazy.

what is your views on this..

Skeptic

Thanks, Pierced Angel...Windrider is one hot lover, and she thinks I am too. Our lovemaking gets pretty intense, but it always expresses our deep feelings for each other.

Richard

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Is Sex Just Sex, or is Sex making love?

by butalbee in

okay, my ex says that sex is just sex, it isn't love.

love is deeper than sex, and sex is just to feel good...he also says that love is an entirely different thing, and if i think having sex has anything to do w/ sex, then i am crazy.

what is your views on this..

Skeptic

TinkerBell,

If you don't mind, may I ask why you are physically separated from your wife? Or did I misunderstand that!

I have to stay in Canada until I reestablish Canadian residency. I will try today to see if U.S. Immigrantion will allow me into the U.S. This has caused untold problems, as it has been seven months.

I'm sorry if that's your situation. You have such a deep love for your wife. You sound like my husband. Your post almost made me feel bad. I don't think I've ever felt that way about ANYBODY.....not too that degree. Maybe it's me. Maybe that's sad. I donno. I'm sure it's because of my screwed up relationship with my father!

I am so sorry about you and your father.

I have never felt such deep overwhelming love for anyone like I feel for Robin and she for me. We are truly soulmates in every way.

I have never felt this way about anyone else, ever. Even my kids noticed the change in me because of Robin. Robin has deeply touched my soul, and changed me forever. I am a much better person because of her.

Never before have I ever felt or have been able to access such tender, tender feelings for anyone. Robin brought that out in me, and now I try to be tender with everyone. It is unreal how much that has improved my relationship with my children, and with people I meet.

I've just never had that kind of undying love for anyone.....maybe a unhealthly, fatal attraction kind of lust, but naaaaa, no deep deep would die for you kind of love. Sorry, just being honest! I've never had children, that may have something to do with it too....I don't think you really know love, until you have a child.

There are different types of love, and love for a child is not the same as what I feel for Windrider. I would gladly die for any of my children, to be stepchildren or Robin.

I find that I love Robin so much that would deny her nothing and do anything for her. She is the same with me.

The love I have found with Robin is surreal, it is that deep, overwhelming and abiding. I am one of the very few lucky ones, and I will cherish her until I die.

Richard

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Is Sex Just Sex, or is Sex making love?

by butalbee in

okay, my ex says that sex is just sex, it isn't love.

love is deeper than sex, and sex is just to feel good...he also says that love is an entirely different thing, and if i think having sex has anything to do w/ sex, then i am crazy.

what is your views on this..

Skeptic

sssshhhhhh Anne....if they don't think we are here who knows what we might hear...

You would hear the crack of the whip, the straining of the ropes, Windrider's whimper...her pleas for more, more Master.

Master Richard

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Is Sex Just Sex, or is Sex making love?

by butalbee in

okay, my ex says that sex is just sex, it isn't love.

love is deeper than sex, and sex is just to feel good...he also says that love is an entirely different thing, and if i think having sex has anything to do w/ sex, then i am crazy.

what is your views on this..

Skeptic

Windrider, my precious pet,

You will always be my Jade, that will never be gone. My heart is yours forever. Each day, my love for you grows and my appreciation for you deepens.

Whenever we have sex, it is always lovemaking. From the most tender caresses to the most primal, wild, animalistic f*cking like two animals in heat until we are completely exhausted, are all lovemaking.

Our lovemaking is often wild, kinky and very primal, but it always expresses our deep and abiding love for each other. And the beauty of it is that it is only limited by our imagination. We will spend eternity discover new and primal ways of expressing our love. This has given our love a spiritual depth that few can appreciate.

Ah, to have you in my arms and my bed again! To do so many positions and techniques that we surprise ourselves with ways we never thought possible before! To be so hot, wet, lusting, loving and primal and then to collaspe from exhaustion into each others arms, cooing tenderly over each other, our hearts singing as one.

I love you so much, baby girl.

Your Master Foever,
Master Richard