Hello JanH, and thank you for that snippet from God's True Channel.
The excerpt: When a young, unmarried girl falls to the temptation, the price she pays is terrible: shame, sorrow, a ruined reputation, endless troubles, with the danger of being disfellowshipped from a congregation if the girl is a dedicated member.
Let's take these prices one by one.
1) shame
Shame, or guilt, is just about the most unproductive emotion one can have. It monopolizes thoughts and so prevents one from planning and taking action to improve the situation. It traps a person in the unchangeable past and so removes hope for a better future. Only controlling and authoritarian groups encourage shame. No surprise here considering the source.
2) sorrow
Sorrow, or grief, is healthy only when it allows the person to overcome unfortunate events. To be sorrowful for an extended period means that a person might need some help in resolving their feeling about the causative events. Only a sadist would wish long sorrow or any other kind of unnecessary suffering on another. No surprise here, either.
3) ruined reputation
Most often, those holding a less than perfect opinion about the woman do so because they have a neurotic need to feel superior. Also, it's probable that these people had similar pre-marital or extra-marital sexual encounters themselves, but just haven't been caught, thus making them hypocrites. The whole reputation business can be just a disguise for enforcing group control. Again, we know where this came from.
4) endless troubles
Uh, who doesn't have what appear to be endless troubles at some point in their lives? Perhaps the troubles wouldn't be so uncomfortable if there is a familial and social support system in place to assist the mother and her child. Only greedy people who condemn charity would object. Another WTBTS hallmark.
5) danger of being disfellowshipped
And so be deemed worthy of death. And in the short term, to be cut off from any hope of assistance. Even if the mother was one of the worst examples of humanity, the child still deserves to have a good start on life. Yet the perverted WTBTS shunning practice will value the so called "purity of the congregation" above the very real physical and psychological needs of the mother and child.
While I do not encourage out-of-wedlock births, I hold that every life is sacred and that every child is a gift form God regardless of the circumstances of its conception and birth. I cannot see how any Christian could do otherwise.