Sea Breeze: So, when we choose to reject God, who is good... we are at the same time rejecting everything that is, good.
Are we, though? What does it mean to reject God? Let's say that I do not believe that this god is real, but I live my life in accordance with his desires. Perhaps I will not be rewarded with an eternity in heaven, but have I earned an infinity of torment?
Sea Breeze: Some people may feel that this gives God an unfair advantage in the relationship.
I don't have an issue with this. It's simply unavoidable that God has the advantage, and I don't consider it unfair. I just think that we have to understand what this means for us. If we define God in certain ways, we should be aware of what this could mean for our future, especially if it is going to last forever.
Sea Breeze: God is not asking us to be something other than what we are.
It wouldn't make sense for him to ask that, since he is responsible for what we are. I am more concerned with God's actions and how those define him. A God who is not bound by human standards of behavior and morality can only really be understood by his actions and attitudes. And I think the God that is described by Christians raises some very worrisome questions.
If God's primary concern is that I recognize him and recognize his greatness, and my eternal future rests on this act, it says something about him and his nature. It is not a question of whether he is justified in acting this way, but we must recognize that this being does not subscribe to the same definitions of good, or just, or kind, or fair as humans do. As described, this being is highly likely to condemn everyone at some point for falling short of standards that we cannot possibly meet. And there's nothing we can do about it. That's scary.