Posts by JWslave77

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The " HIGHER EDUCATION" thread!!!

by DATA-DOG in

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alright.

let's have the ultimate discussion on "higher education.

" let's talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly.

JWslave77

You're spending a lot of time on an apostate site for someone that's trying to seek reinstatement TxNVSue2023. Don't let your JC know you're so active on this site lol

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Reinstatement...the aftermath?

by TxNVSue2023 in

i'm in the process of being reinstated ( my df'ing story is on here).

because i've never been in this position before, i don't know how i will be treated once i'm reinstated.

i moved ti a new city/state and i don't know a single person here or in my new congregation i am attending.

enoughisenough, I agree. Unless a person was inactive for 19 of those 20 years they'd know the process. You don't have to be an elder to know the answers to these questions. At first I felt sorry for her but I'm skeptical it's a real situation and even if it was.....well if someone goes back to that organization they deserve whatever they get.

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Reinstatement...the aftermath?

by TxNVSue2023 in

i'm in the process of being reinstated ( my df'ing story is on here).

because i've never been in this position before, i don't know how i will be treated once i'm reinstated.

i moved ti a new city/state and i don't know a single person here or in my new congregation i am attending.

JWslave77

I smell a rat here. Sounds like you're either a troll or just trying to create a story. You just posted the same question yesterday and if you're sincere about going back what are you doing on an apostate forum anyways?

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Disfellowshipped for Fornication

by TxNVSue2023 in

hi i want to tell my story and get advice.

i'm a single sister ( in usa) that has been baptized for 20 years.

i came from the world, so did not grow up in the truth and i have no family in the truth -- i am alone.. last year i met a brother & we did have premarital sex while we were dating.

JWslave77

Hi Sue,

First of all, I am sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation in your mate being unfaithful and then to be slapped by the congregation like this.

I was raised my whole life in the organization and was an elder for about 10 years, I "stepped down" about 8 years ago. My guess is that your elders limped on the argument that you did not bring your sin to light until forced to do so by the confession of your ex. It isn't that this alone is a basis for disfellowshipping in their book, but certainly one component they start with. In conjunction with that, they also usually consider how many people know about the "wrongdoing". So if your ex was blabbing to everyone around him about it there is a good chance the elders took that into consideration.

I would never tell you what to do because I'm a PIMO just so I don't lose family basically, but I often wonder what I would do if I was disfellowshipped. As much as the organization inflicts pain and suffering on its people for just being human, your case being a perfect example, I think I'd take the opportunity and finally make my break for a new life.

I wish you well no matter your decision.

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Predict JW life in future

by ExBethelitenowPIMA in

a sister said the other day at the ministry group “”what is all this talk that the end is still some way off” she said she has been waiting for decades and she was told there is no way it would take this long.

some others said in an annoyed kind of way yes they would have made different decisions decades ago if they knew the end still would not have come by 2023.. how will the majority react in a few more decades time when the end still hasn’t come?.

why all that talk of sense of urgency decades ago?.

JWslave77

I graduated high school in 1995 and although to this day I still PIMO due to family circumstances I can't come to terms with that would change if I left, I went to college immediately after high school, and now 2 masters degrees later am the CFO of a financial institution. I'm not proud to still be PiMo but I'm glad I made some plans.

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I never had a happy birthday this year 5/7

by smiddy3 in

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my wife had a hip replacement on june the 17th and while the op itself was apparently succesful ,she has had a reaction to the anesthetic ?

and has suffered delirium and is still in hospital with no apparent improvement.. its been very distressing for me to say the least.

sorry if i sound a bit morbid but i just had to share,.

JWslave77

I am sorry to hear that. Last year my dad had a heart valve repair and he had a terrible bout of delirium for about 2 weeks. He couldn't even move his limbs for the first 3 days after the anesthesia, but the delirium hung on for much longer. He slowly came out of it and is doing great now. I wish you wife well and a recovery from this.

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OH...NO! Watchtower Has A New Rule Related To Dress And Grooming

by JW GoneBad in

the new head-of-the-house max has a problem with how his new stepdaughter (olivia) looks and dresses.. on the friday afternoon part 2 convention video @ 18:10 max 1st brings it up with olivia while in the kitchen!

then fast forward to 26:50 thru 27:65 max bellyaches to new wife (olivia's mother) & it's handled!

message to all rank & file jws....no more fashion torn jeans & beach sandles: :) :) :).

JWslave77

They probably don't want sisters wearing flip flops so that they don't turn on guys that have a foot fetish. I always loved going to conventions, assemblies, and meetings just so I could see the sisters do shoe dipping and slide their shoes off hoping I could get a good look at their toes and soles lol . Max probably doesn't want all the boys getting stiffies over his step daughters sexy feet.