Posts by Snoozy

39

Went round and round last night

by sinis in

jw
friends

so, my mother is still in.

last night at my parents home she starts in with me on how she is going to ask my sig other to the memorial (puke), and that i should not forbid her to go.

we went round and round about how the jw's are bs, gave many examples and it always came back to some twisted circular reasoning, that i still do not fully understand.

Snoozy

It sounds like your mother has " boundary problems " . Like NOT honoring you and your lady's boundaries. Your mom should just chill and not try reeling back in your girfriend to the Witnesses if you and your lady are happy already. Perhaps a nice chat with your mom about honoring those boundaries might be appropriate towards her lightening up on you & your lady. Just a thought. Good luck. Peace out, Mr. Flipper

And he should speak for his wife why? A husband that has a wife with a brain doesn't need to speak about "her boundaries for her"..

I'm sure the wife has a brain ?

My feeling on this goes way back to when I was a dutiful JW wife and did all that hubby said and he made all tlhe decisions..after leaving the religion I got a brain! I learned I could make and voice my own decisions, even if he/someone else didn't like them. Just curls my toes to hear people talk for their wives..or tell someone their wives or husbands view when they in all reality don't have a clue..if the JW mom wanted to ask the wife to a meeting it was her choice, she shouldn't have to "run it through the hubby first"..she should ask the wife directly and the wife should speak for herself..if she didn't know what to say then it is her problem to grow a backbone and say no or go...but it should still be her choice..

It's called respect!

Hubby was a JW and I would voice my opinion if HE brought something up about his religion but Being a JW was his choice..I respected that boundary..as I expected him to do mine..which he didn't..after all , he was still a JW..

Snoozy

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Facebook sneering comments

by punkofnice in

has anyone seen the comments on here by a guy called nelson?.

is he for real????.

http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/permalink.php?story_fbid=206861819339379&id=134539516609086&notif_t=like.

Snoozy

I liked the "Stripper Fail" you tube that someone posted ..It was funny!

Snoozy..

16

Would you ride on these?

by Snoozy in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ungpowan4as.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnyytrrzmxa.

i would be terrified!.

Snoozy

You guys should seen the rollar coasters they had back in the 50's..they only had one bar that dropped down and held two people in place at the same time. No safty belts of any kind and very few restrictions..(height or weight). I rode on one when I was in the 5th grade and weighed 90 pounds..I swear I allmost flew out! If the guy next to you was bigger than you the bar didn't come down tight on you. I guess my partner saw me fly up and held me down the rest of the ride..I was pale as a ghost when I got off..so now I have a terrible fear of them and would never ever ride one..

Besides that they were the most rickety things made out of wood and had very little side rails for protection..

As they say, they've come a long way baby..

Over the years I heard many stories about kids that had flown out..

Snoozy

6

Would you do this for your daughter?

by Snoozy in

a girly party..via avon calling?

two of their many parties:.

platinum princess party .

Snoozy

A girly party..via Avon calling?

Two of their many parties:

Platinum Princess Party

$375 for 8 girls. $25 for each additional girl. (2 hours)
Basic package plus:
Limo pick-up, drop off or ride during party.
Pizza.
Group photo and picture frame for host.
Light-up wands for each girl.
Surprise princess appearance from "real princess".
Gift bag station

Platinum High School Dance

$110 per girl (four girl minimum).
Hair up-du with "hair bling", airbrush make-up, airbrush tan (can be done ahead of time).
Limo pick-up from one home (18 miles max) ($5 per additional mile).
One hour limo rental following services.

http://www.stlgirlparties.com

Snoozy

39

Went round and round last night

by sinis in

jw
friends

so, my mother is still in.

last night at my parents home she starts in with me on how she is going to ask my sig other to the memorial (puke), and that i should not forbid her to go.

we went round and round about how the jw's are bs, gave many examples and it always came back to some twisted circular reasoning, that i still do not fully understand.

Snoozy

Sinus wrote:

It pisses me off when people (family included) stick their nose in shit thats none of their business!!!

Parents do that.. They really think they are doing something good..you have to remember that. People need to speak for themselves..the idea that the mom thought the husband had control over the wife and could stop her from going doesn't say much about him!

Just saying...

Snoozy, who CAN speak for herself..and did!

39

Went round and round last night

by sinis in

jw
friends

so, my mother is still in.

last night at my parents home she starts in with me on how she is going to ask my sig other to the memorial (puke), and that i should not forbid her to go.

we went round and round about how the jw's are bs, gave many examples and it always came back to some twisted circular reasoning, that i still do not fully understand.

Snoozy

Peaches said:

not for nothing, your mom with all due respect needs to mind her business, your the head of the house and it should be what you say. you need to sit down with your wife and have a serious conversation about how you are feeling towards her going to the memorial or whatever. and i agree with you 100% a divided marriage is not good at all. just my 1 cent

And lifesgood wrote:

According to the Bible and the WTBTS the husband has headship over the wife. Your mother cannot make a decision affecting your wife. Only you can do that.

What century are you guys in?

Sinus wrote:

I think anyone who says this is a means to control has blinders on, or themselves have not lived through the "divided" household, with all due respect.

As far as a divided household goes..you have no idea! I was in one for over 30 years..I was a witness for 15 before that.

Snoozy..

16

Would you ride on these?

by Snoozy in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ungpowan4as.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnyytrrzmxa.

i would be terrified!.

Snoozy

Jam LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Data7hWV2YQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2SPJNWs6YQ

Snoozy

16

Would you ride on these?

by Snoozy in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ungpowan4as.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnyytrrzmxa.

i would be terrified!.

Snoozy

I dare you to watch this all the way through.. Too intense!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNw8vIK1G_4

Snoozy

16

Would you ride on these?

by Snoozy in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ungpowan4as.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnyytrrzmxa.

i would be terrified!.

Snoozy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ungpoWAn4As

and this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNYyTRRzmxA

I would be terrified!

Snoozy

39

Went round and round last night

by sinis in

jw
friends

so, my mother is still in.

last night at my parents home she starts in with me on how she is going to ask my sig other to the memorial (puke), and that i should not forbid her to go.

we went round and round about how the jw's are bs, gave many examples and it always came back to some twisted circular reasoning, that i still do not fully understand.

Snoozy

I get offended when I read about others discussing how to treat a wife..she is a grown up, let her decide.
And why did your mom feel the need to warn you other than to stir the pot?
Think about it..if your wife "Didn't say too much" sounds like she does not have a open line of communicaiton with you..something you may want to work on.
Sounds like you may be a little controlling and she is afraid to open up with you? You may end up pushing her into the religion if you try to push..

Also, when talking with a JW it is better to try and stay on one or two subjects rather than going all over the map..that way it is easier to make a point. And be prepared..nothing worse than throwing things out without backing them up like they do!

Hope your wife makes what we feel is the right choice!

Snoozy