Well I was with my hubby and my Mom and Dad when they died. My Mom and Dad both died at the hospital..hubby at home. My Mom reached out like she saw someone holding out a hand right before she died , but that could have been from a heart attack or something. I could still feel her presence for quite a while after that even tho they pronounced her dead.
My Dad had a moniter attached to his body when they pronounced him dead. Quite a few minutes later they came back in the room to tell me he was gone. ( I was still sitting next to him).
The reason I was still sitting next to him was I overheard someone say something about he was still registering brain waves.on the moniter...I commented on this to the Dr and he said it was a delayed brainwave. It still registers for a while after people die.Well that freaked me out..I didn't want to take a chance he may have still been alive! I wasn't going to let them do anything to him until I was sure.
Thing is they finally chased me out and tried to reassure me he Was dead!
Needless to say I always felt uneasy about that.
Hubby just died in bed while I was sleeping next to him. Funny when I looked at him I prayed he was dead. He really suffered. But I also felt like he had gone somewhere else and wasn't with me anymore..
Months later I had a dream that he was laying next to me and hugging me and said it was time for him to go..I said I know..and never had another dream about him again.
But I did want to see him just one more time.. One more hug.
I also heard they always relieve themselves when they die..That's not true. At least not in my three experiences.
So anyway after my Dad died I have always had this fear that when our bodies die our brain keeps on going..Scares the fun out of me! Wouldn't that be awful?
Like a brain inside a jar..creepy!
Snoozy..