MD,
These stories just break my heart and really do bring tears to my eyes too. I pray that times have changed since I attended meetings 22 years ago. I was fortunate that my dad wouldn't do anything like that during the meetings to me, or any of my 7 sisters. We never got in any trouble for whispering, or drawing, or stuff like that at meetings. It was silly stuff at home that you might do that would make him very abusive. I know that if anyone knew what my dad was really like back then, we would have been removed from our home. Unless it was a JW who knew what was going on. If that were the case, the JW probably would have said it was our fault that my dad was a lunatic.
I did witness other kids getting beat for moving around or talking too much though. And I saw my share of toddlers get beat because they couldn't sit still and quiet for 2 hours. There were some parents who allowed their children to bring a small toy, or even color or draw during the meetings. But those parents were very rare. The subjects of the talks were about 20 years above toddlers and childrens'level of comprehension. How is a child expected to sit through two ours of that, when adults even had a hard time sitting still and staying awake through it?!!
This is certainly a subject that should be brought up, and I'm glad you brought it up. As HadEnough said, it might open the eyes of JW lurkers who have toddlers,small children,and pre-teens. They are killing the spirits of their own toddlers and children
HadEnough, I missed your post, but I'll look for it.
peace,
somebody...who sheads tears for the babies and children of JWs.