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My thoughts are with you and your family. It's sad that life can be so complicated enough, without having men try and force you to disown your own family! Especailly wehn they see strong family ties such as with you and your son. And your son was right when he said that family members who go back because their family members won't even as much as speak to them is not a spiritual or Godly reason to return. The "arrangement" the society uses to get poeple to return is nothing short of blackmail.
Please read this thread and tell your son about the iformation in the KMs being not rigid rules, but only suggestions, according to the society. He can print out the article from his WT cd and bring it with him if he decides to attend the intimidation and judging committee. truthseekers gave the whole article too in this thread:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=44609&site=3
Meanwhile, I like nightworriorors idea to not let elders intimidate us or make us feel like we aren't worthy of God's or anyone elses love.
Thanks nightworrior!
peace,
somebody