earlier this morning i had a moment...and had a bit of a temper tantrum.
i want to thank all those that let me know i wasnt alone.
i have been going through some tough times and noone gave me grief when i yelled about it.
Life has a bright side and a dark side,
for the world of relativity
is composed of light and shadows.
If you premit your thoughts
to dwell on evil,
you yourself will become ugly.
Look only for the good
in everything,
that you absorb
the quality of beauty.
------Paramahansa Yogananda
ok i have a scenario that just seems wrong to me.
i would like any advice or opinoins you have.. here are the facts...... ----my sister was sexually abused as a child ( i dont know by whom and she is not talking..still a dub).
---i was sexually abused as a child (the memories have just started surfacing and i dont know by whom yet).
My sister is a good person..but she always was daddy's little girl and I think she wouldn't want any part of it. As a sister she is good...but as a JW she would choose that over me anyday I hate to say. Besides what would I say or even how would I bring up the question. She still refuses to believe that I was abused..even though she was and it was covered up (gee imagine that). Im thinking that maybe my mother would be the best way to go. She is very soft hearted and might at least agree that it is inappropiate.
lol....no, it's not an important question but i was wondering if "syn" the poster is male or female?
hmm...i also suspect he/she isn't 20 years old as he/she has claimed.
so, what's the story syn?
SYN - Ok I dont know you very well...and I have no problem with you. I was not here when the entire episode started...but..
A lie is a lie
The truth is the truth
Deception is still deception even with jokes
I would say that most if not all posters here will forgive you for this but you can be sure they won't forget. After all most here have given trust and been severely let down. Trust is earned and you will have to earn it again. That is what may take a long time if it ever happens. I wish you luck and I hope this thread can be used as a learning tool to use in your personal growth.
Spice
ok i have a scenario that just seems wrong to me.
i would like any advice or opinoins you have.. here are the facts...... ----my sister was sexually abused as a child ( i dont know by whom and she is not talking..still a dub).
---i was sexually abused as a child (the memories have just started surfacing and i dont know by whom yet).
Who put her into his care? I think her parents/guardians should be approached and asked if they know exactly what goes on whilst their daughter is in his care.
This part is sticky as well....Her parents are divorced and she lives with her mother and sister. Her older sisters were abused by their father (not sure which way). Her family is very uneducated and are studying to be a JW. I am pretty sure they know that she joins him in the hot tub but not 100%. BTW - I forgot to mention that my mother is not present at these times either. She knows they do this but then again..not to be mean..my mother is not the brightest. Not to mention my mother is the one studying with her mother.
ok i have a scenario that just seems wrong to me.
i would like any advice or opinoins you have.. here are the facts...... ----my sister was sexually abused as a child ( i dont know by whom and she is not talking..still a dub).
---i was sexually abused as a child (the memories have just started surfacing and i dont know by whom yet).
ok I have a scenario that just seems wrong to me. I would like any advice or opinoins you have.
Here are the facts.....
----My sister was sexually abused as a child ( I dont know by whom and she is not talking..still a dub)
---I was sexually abused as a child (The memories have just started surfacing and I dont know by whom yet)
OK...my dad watches a 13 yr old girl that has Down Syndrome from time to time to help out her family. In the times that he watches her..he helps her change clothes..and takes her in his hot tub with him. Maybe I am blowing this way out of proportion but this does not set right with me. I mean if a woman (single or married) is not allowed to ride in a car alone with a brother (single or married) then why is my father allowed to help a challenged teenage girl change into a bathingsuit. Plus my mother knows all about it. That I don't get.
If those facts alone aren't bad enough (in my opinion), here are some more. About a year ago...I dyed my hair a red color. As soon as my father saw it he asked if I thought my mother would do the same and he asked in the manner that the color turned him on. I'm sorry but me dying my hair shouldn't have my father thinking in a sexual manner. That is more of a question a best friend might say to another. One more thing...a while back my father was showing something to me on his computer when I saw a glimpse of a porn icon. Mind you ...I have no problems with porn..but we are talking about a JW here.
To ask my question...I know I was abused but I have no idea if it was indeed my father. And even if it wasnt my father, isnt his behavior a little bit inappropriate with the DS girl. And what should I do about it if anything.
Please I need some help on this....this just isnt right!!!
i am sure this question has been posted by someone before ...but it wasn't by me so it doesnt count..lol .
to those that post here do you..... a. consider yourself christian.
b. consider yourself pagan.
*smacks joanna upside her head for being comfortable with being a student*
just kidding..Joanna I think you have something there...then again Im young too....lol
i am sure this question has been posted by someone before ...but it wasn't by me so it doesnt count..lol .
to those that post here do you..... a. consider yourself christian.
b. consider yourself pagan.
Heaven--I have often said that is not important what you belive in as long as you believe in something (now guys...don't go taking this sentence out of context..not trying to start a fight of any kind)
Spider---We should totally chat sometime...I am adding you to my AOL and my yahoo is catark76
I also would like a good description of what deism as well
Spice
I like Mac..I like...I feel like that alot
Thanks for sharing...
Spice
PS---ty Spaz....btw if anybody else wants to share..please do
ok...simon with his guess the song lyrics inspired me to do one for movies..... you can post your fave movie quote and see if anyone can guess it.
no home movies or indie please (unless its really well-known).
plus if you want you can put what genre it is...... i have one to start us out:.
Mac---you got it..that was Natural Born Killers
OK...hours up....
3. It can't rain all the time.
This was from the crow...I thought it was really easy...hmmm guess not
7. Why are these ceilings so low?
this was from Being John Malkovich
10. This comet came crashing into the earth. BAM! Total devastation. No celebrities, no cable TV, *no water*! It hasn't rained in 11 years. Now, 20 people gotta squeeze into the same bathtub. So it ain't all bad
this one was from Tank Girl
7 out of 10 isnt bad though...
Valis..that is soo familiar...I just cant think of it
Here is a real easy one.... "I'm the king of the world"
ok...simon with his guess the song lyrics inspired me to do one for movies..... you can post your fave movie quote and see if anyone can guess it.
no home movies or indie please (unless its really well-known).
plus if you want you can put what genre it is...... i have one to start us out:.
Yuppers Mac...it is Benny and Joon. I just love that movie.
OK..the rest of ya have another hour then I'll reveal the last 4.
Spice
