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  Need an Exit Plan Fast!

  by kneehighmiah in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend cult handlers have gotten to her.

  they suggested she should no longer communicate with someone who's thinking isn't in line with jehovah's organization.

  we argued and she told me to go hang myself.

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  happy@last

  You've woken up and smelt the hypocrisy for sure. There's lots here who have moved and faded successfully. I faded, then DA'd so can't really advise, only to say be true to yourself and never stop learning, oh and make happy times too
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  Have You Been Invited To The Memorial?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  one of my best friend's, who is an ex elder had two elders visit him at his home yesterday to invite him to the memorial.

  he was cordial to them because they were'nt over the top.. so far, i have had no invites, thank god..

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  happy@last

  No, my best friend was so we defaced it and posted it through the KH door
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  Are you a good person?

  by Xanthippe in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  something happened this week to make me think about this again.. it feels like all bets are off and i really don't know what a good person is anymore.. when i left the jws i was so sure i knew what it meant to be a good person.. this has been revised many times since.. i tend to favour the utilitarian approach, the greatest happiness for the greatest number of people.. sometimes you have to stick your neck out and say this is not good for me no matter what others may feel they need from me.. no idea where i'm going with this maybe this is a breakthrough in my life or maybe that glass of wine was stronger than i thought!.

  any thoughts?.

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  happy@last

  To be a good person means to think of others. You can't always help but you can be there for them and do what you can in view of the circumstances you are in.
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  How many members of our forum are there, and where are most from?

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i would love to know where most of our fellow forum members are from.... is there a way to compile a quick list?.

  for example, i would love to know how many live near me......

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  happy@last

  Scotland
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  Ex-Jehovah's Witness success story

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  this was just posted to facebook.

  https://www.facebook.com/groups/xjwrg3/10152073176825835/?comment_id=10152073536380835&notif_t=group_comment_reply.

  by christina jones.

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  happy@last

  I'm in Phizzy's camp (that didn't sound right), I shed a tear over this. What a great person she is, I hope the girl remembers that lesson.
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  I have made my decision

  by Brother Mike in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i'm sure most of you have read bits and pieces of my story throughout the last year being on this site.

  i've decided as a human being, and as an adult, i'm going to make the decision on whether to stay with the jw religion or leave it.

  i of course have many doubts about the organization which has lead me to do research.

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  happy@last

  Great decision, don't expect it to be plain sailing, but it will be worth it. Life is for living, not for being in expectation of a future that doesn't exist.
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  JW lifestyle is the best way to live!

  by FL_Panthers in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  being a jw is amazing!

  who agrees with me??.

  the jw is a protection from the world.

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  happy@last

  Welcome Starling.
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  JW lifestyle is the best way to live!

  by FL_Panthers in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  being a jw is amazing!

  who agrees with me??.

  the jw is a protection from the world.

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  happy@last

  No thanks, I want to live in the real world, not a place where pedophiles are protected whilst their victims are treated like dirt. I want to find things out for myself, not be fed deception and lies and told they are truth.
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  Hello, I am new

  by LillyC in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am not a jehovah's witness but i am very interested, i have many questions and hope they can be answered here.. i do believe in god, privately.

  i do say my prayers daily and do believe god helps me in countless ways.

  but i don't go to any church.. i have always been impressed at how smart, polite and nice jehovah's witnesses are and i always make time to speak to them when they call at my door.

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  happy@last

  Welcome here, never stop asking questions. Enjoy life and stay open minded. A lot of good advice above, I was once told believe nothing of what you are told and half of what you see. Works well if you are looking at JWs from new.
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  This is my first post

  by Make Lemonade in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i wanted to express appreciation to the members of this forum.

  there are resources here that are deep.

  like we heard from the stage, "what is your depth and breadth of bible knowledge?

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  happy@last

  Welcome ML. A huge well done for standing up for what you believe in. Always be true to yourself. In my town a man was hounded out his home and made to leave by the community after the police found thousands of images of children on his PC, yet the same time the JWs refused to cooperate with the police when asked about a pedophile in their congregation! Us 'wordly' people are disgusted by pedo's actions, JWs want to protect them!

  I wish you peace and happiness in your journey through life.