It's a way to cover my life.
Holidays: I need it because there's so much stress at work and in the cong. Need to recover. Don't preaching and don't argue with this.
Big car: it's better for preaching, help brothers and take people to the cong.
Big flat: better for inviting brothers and sisters.
Give up CLAM-membership: have to care for an older sister and not sure if I can be present every time.
But a lot of dubs hide the materialistic world behind such phrases, yes. If they move to an other place in the world, they mostly uber-dubs which not able to live a normal live.