You've just got to be responsible about it. I agree w/Scully when she says that a bunch of old d0oDz in Brooklyn should have nothing to do with the sex lives of committed couples.
Monagomy is very important in this regard.
But be careful.
Besides, all these people going on about sex, sex this, sex that...*wakey wakey*, some of the most earth-shattering orgasms are usually not the result of sex, but of other, different sexual acts. I won't go into them here. (I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about, the things guys and girls can do to each other *blush*)
All I'm saying is, you can have a lot of fun without having sex.
In my experiences, every time I've done that in a relationship, it didn't last terribly long. I looked at the girl in a different way afterwards!
Better is to simply make her scream etc. without having sex. Then there's ZERO guilt, zero risk (well almost zero if you do it properly and are careful). That's just fine for me.
The earlier in the forenoon you take the sun bath, the greater will be the beneficial effect, because you get more of the ultra-violet rays, which are healing. - The Golden Age