This cult is all about control and that is why it is set up this way with DF'ing and shunning to keep those sheep in line. The only power these ratbastards have is the power you give them. Remember that.
Amen to that!
Looks like you've got it all worked out! High five!
Congratulations on freeeeedom! Do you feel like a tonne weight has lifted off your shoulders yet? That feeling is just priceless! Anyway, welcome:)