"Normal" is not a good word in this instance. What does "not normal" mean but abnormal? "Abnormal" is "normally" a medical term, a bad one. Flee from Jehobalon the Great, and touch nothing unclean, including sentiments and judgements of 'normalcy'. - Teirce 83.18 ;)
Andee says "To deliberately bring into the world a child without a father is contemptable, IMO. Two women do not take the place of a father, period." - I'm curious - Would you agree that women have acquired increasing rights, volition and wherewithal in the West? Would you agree that women have to take on the masculine role of disciplinarian for awol fathers, all the time? The statistics are not bad for single-parent families where the volition and wherewithal conditions are met. How, exactly, in this day and age, are women incapable of providing the discipline necessary for the objective of raising their child as a respectful human being? (That's the most commonly cited objective.) In biology, males are genetic cross-polinators and are more disposable after the birth of young. What is it about human society that requires male paternal patronage throughout life, that is not needed in the animal kingdom? Does this indicate a belief that women are absolutely helpless without men, in this respect? (And how Airwalk's situation got transmuted into her not knowing what a father is, I don't know. Airwalk never remotely indicated anything about her father.) I would just ask Andee to clarify her line of questioning.
Airwalk said "but how would we have a baby together. i would love it if it could come from both of us" - Not to burst your bubble of disbelief, but I think this has been done with animal ova. I won't go searching for it, but it had something to do with combining the DNA of one ovum with that of the host ovum. Not sure if it was successful, not sure if it's a false memory. Much much getting done in that area.
"then when i reflect back on how i feel, i feel icky because these things are coming out of my mouth. my mother would shit a brick." - I can only think to suggest you might let your mother know that it's now 2001AD. We're in the third millenium. Maybe that's harsh, I don't know. (Actually, what's your mom's position on the JW's?)
Sorry for being harsh, guys. I'm new, I'm no one, I'm about to get shooed by Eman. I just see some Jehovaism Kling-ons that could stand a little Raid. Might burn, I know. Sorry. I get burned by the gf all. the. time. To hell with me!