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  Today is my two year shuniversary

  by kairos in

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  glad it isn't the 1200's...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbtad2c08xu3-25-89 to 9-10-15.. today is my two year shuniversary since they executed me for apostasy..

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  Congratulations. You don't sound too "executed". You sound pretty much more alive an happier.
  
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  JW.org is a real estate and publishing company disguesd as a religion.

  by UNCONDITIONAL LOVE in

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  since my awakening i have tried to understand why and how people could continue to believe so blindly in a proven false "religious" cult that has such an extensive and detailed record of scandals, lies and cover ups???

  i've come to the personal conclusion that there are three major reasons.

  i call them the 3 f-ups!

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  Is this the beginning of the end of the JW corporation? Time will tell...
  

  Doubt it. They changed their model like every other business that was in the publishing industry.
  
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  Free to sin but still cannot bring myself to do it

  by sinboi in

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  have da'd myself nearly 3 months ago.

  now i am part of this world but i feel myself the odd one out.

  something inside me is still blocking me to do the things i have been longing to do while i was still a jw, such as attending birthday parties, sex, etc.... just last nite, i was on the way to attend a birthday party.

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  Now I am worried about my military obligation in a year's time. Will I be able to get myself involve in bayonet fighting?

  Been 16 years under bondage by the org. (since birth). The only sin so far is smoking and heavy petting .

  Sorry that you are going through all that. Please be gentle with yourself. I can give you a million reasons to understand how ridiculous that concept of "sin" is, but I think that you get that well at the rational level.

  If you find it to be a problem that is stopping you from living your life and feeling comfortable in your own skin, I may suggest you to get professional help. You don't need to deal and figure everything out all by yourself. A counselor or therapist who specializes in negative influence may be able to help you with whatever is blocking you.

  Leaving that organization physically is not the end of your relationship with them. Please know that many of us have gone/still go through the same or worse.

  One of the most important "sins" that you can commit is getting outside help and advise from a mental health professional that understands the negative influence of that organization while remains a complete outside source. Remember we were trained to believe that we "know better" than those professionals, and that the only source of help is not even the Bible, but the gazillions of publications containing their interpretations of it. Ditch that believe and ask for help if you feel like you need it.

  And of course, there's this forum.
  
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  Pale.Emperor And The Hypnotists

  by pale.emperor in

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  even as a jw i was fascinated with hypnosis and seeing people like derren brown putting people under almost instantly.

  in the last 2/3 years when i was a jw but beginning to wake up from the bullshit i read up on hypnosis, watched a few youtube demos and explanations etc.

  but never actually studied it seriously until about a year ago.

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  Interesting topic and experience. I myself explored it at some point, but my level of interest is not that deep. That ridiculous condemnation of hypnosis by the WT is just bizarre.

  Hypnosis has had a bad rap in the past due to ridiculous claims that many other sources have made about it, such as:

  

  Or:

  

  And:

  
  

  It used to be common that hypnosis was made fun of or misrepresented in the media and even in education. There were/are many misconceptions about it. HOWEVER, most of the world have moved on to knowing better, but the WT continues their stupid archaic way of thinking about it.
  
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  How much do you think the internet has hurt JW growth?

  by HereIgo in

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  the internet is what helped bring me and so many others out of this evil organization or at least confirmed our doubts.

  i have to say, i have seen quite a few youtube videos recently of ex jw's secretly recording their interactions inside of different congregations, halls, etc and see how empty the halls are!

  so many people comment on how the attendance is so low, far more emptier than when i was in 6 years ago, even on a weekday meeting.

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  One of their most used tricks to maintain people controlled and to keep ex-JWs feeling like crap, was to isolating and limiting access to both information about doctrine and about the lives of people who leave.

  The Internet has posed a giant challenge to the WT in that sense. Aside from people having easier access to information regarding all the nonsense that they teach, the thing that has hurt them the most is ex-JWs being able to unite, compare notes, form groups, and provide a consistent message about what the WT really is.

  Without the Internet (for example), many people would have never heard about the case of the Australian Royal Commission and their institutional child abuse. More than finding discrepancies in their teachings, the Internet has provided a more realistic picture of who they are.

  Also, people who may be thinking on joining them have the opportunity of hearing the entire story before making a decision.

  At first they tried to stop people from using the Internet, then they started talking about the "dangers of the Internet". It was inevitable that they had to embrace it, but they came in late to the game. That is the result of having older non-technology oriented people in their GB.

  So yes, the Internet is one of the WT's biggest nightmares. Still is.
  
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  Why would Jehovah God write the Ten Commandments on two tablets of stone ,in the first place ?

  by smiddy3 in

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  i mean to say he is the creator of the universe isn`t he ?

  so why would he use such a method that is subject to crumbling over time ?.

  i remember a jw talk/mag.

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  Why would Jehovah God write the Ten Commandments on two tablets of stone ,in the first place ?
  

  That was an important prophecy, predicting the iPad.
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  In the name of the...

  by btlc in

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  when i was a kid, i was occasionaly attend to baptism at conventions, and i remember that brothers who immerses candidates in the water, said: "right hand to nose, left hand to right hand, and i baptise you in the name of the father, son and holy spirit, amen".

  i remeber that same mantra at my baptism too, back in the eighties.

  but, some years ago, i was asked to help to move some props around baptism pool, so i attend to baptism after so many years - there was no "in the name of the..." part.

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  Never paid attention to that detail. Don't remember if anything at all was said during my baptism. However, btlc:

  ...he gave me look like I said something nasty, and he said: "we don't use that phrase for decades, dude..."
  

  that's a more relevant issue to me.
  
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  What is the watchtower going to do when

  by pepperheart in

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  all the old magazines that are on the carts now have gone ?.

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  ALL the old magazines that are on the carts now have gone ?
  

  Print more.
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  Prayers ,are they answered ? or is it just self delusion ?

  by smiddy3 in

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  after 33 years as a jw and leaving 25 years ago i think prayer can be summed up with the jews praying at the wailing wall.. all they are doing is talking to a brick wall ,and getting no feed back.

  and they expect an answer to their prayers ?!.

  christians /other beliefs might find that funny but they are no better off.. prayer is always a one way street you talk either vocally or mentally to god however you never get the same back .. if god " so loved the world that he doesnt want any to be destroyed but have everlasting life " then whats the problem with him audibly answering his servants prayers ?

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  Prayers ,are they answered ? or is it just self delusion ?
  

  Self delusion. Don't you notice that prayers get extremely, severely conveniently answered and ignored in the most contrived of ways? That should give you a clue.

  How many people are right now praying in Cuba to get saved from the Hurricane? So if they are safe, is that because the prayer was answered? And if they are not safe, why would that be?

  The whole prayer thing doesn't make sense from the logical stand point. For some reason, however, it does give comfort to people. It keeps some people calmed, and makes them trusting. From that point of view, prayer gives people hope, but nothing more.
  
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  Shunning

  by sinboi in

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  did the org have any guidelines on shunning?.

  if the son is d/a or d/f, are the parents supposed to disown him, chase him out of the house?.

  for husband and wife, do they need to divorce or what?.

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  Did the org have any guidelines on shunning?

  Yes, especially if there are minors involved.

  If the son is d/a or d/f, are the parents supposed to disown him, chase him out of the house?

  Not physically if they are minors since they could get in legal trouble for doing that. If they are not minors, many JW parents choose to kick them out of the house, but there's no written rule about it. However, if they live under their roof and are being supported by them, they should abide the rules of the home owner and the person who is providing and supporting the son/daughter. Emotionally, yes.

  Also, some JW loving parents look the other way and still do the right thing and don't disown their children over some Jehovah nonsense.

  For husband and wife, do they need to divorce or what?

  Not necessarily, but if the d/f or d/a a person is the woman, she has to be "submissive" to her husband, and he has the opportunity to do and treat her any way he wants (or any way he can get away with legally). If the d/f or d/a person is the male, then the woman has to go through a whole load of nonsense to balance still being submissive to her husband and fulfilling the demands of the Jehovah nonsense.

  I am very lucky. My parents still give me allowances when I go school. When I sick, my dad still bring me to the doctor.

  You are not lucky. Your parents are legally bound to do so. That is their responsibility and duty to do. They have to do that if you are a minor under their guardianship. When you turn legally an adult, then you could say if you are in fact lucky. Also, taking care of you as a child should not be a matter of luck. All loving, responsible parents should be more than happy to support their children.

  When I tell them that they are suppose to shun me, my dad told me he still need to fulfill his duty as parents.

  See my comment above. I find it sad that he doesn't say that it's because he loves you and wants the best for you.