Totally agree with Blondie. Also since you are not jw, the eldumbs will be leaning to believe every word (even lies) the father of your unborn child says coz he is a jw. He is one rung up the ladder than you so they will belive any BS that he spews. Also they have to keep the reputation of the organization clean too (cover-up, lies all inclusive to achieve this ). When it comes to his word ahainst your word; JW's tend to believe one of their own. Truth does not count.Sorry!
My heart goes out to you , I am ever so sorry for you. Hope things work out well for you and your unborn child .
Zing