AGuest ... my Lord just said to me, "The truth, child, is that it's the other way around."
Which ever way around we put it we come back to the same choice. We can live by the sword or live by love. Whether we credit our our-self or our god - the result, in this world, is the same. As for the next world, I 'll have to wait and see what my gods have planned.
Peace to you - on this wonderful Saturday evening in the UK.