Ianao,
You're probably not going to see much at the first meeting except a booooooring couple of hours, and JW's bugging the hell out of you before and after the meetings, telling you how clean and pure and wonderful and wholesome and lovely and great and saved "God's Organization" is. You'll have go to several meetings before you see the repetative nature of them. But by then, depending on how well informed about the WTS you are, it might be too late. Many a guilt trip will be laid upon you to dedicate yourself to Jehovah, to join the ministry school, to knock on doors, to sacrifice education and normal life, to do your utmost to serve the God(WTS). But guess what, it's never good enough. Oh, they'll tell you to do your best, and that's good enough. WRONG! Every once in a while there will be a story in the Watchtower or at a meeting or assembly where a family sells their house and moves to a dangerous area to serve "where the need is greater". How will you feel when you just bought a house and started a family and a good paying job, and only put in 10 hours a month in the "field ministry"? Are you going to be stressed over the 5 meetings a week, studying the publications the night before each meeting, including door to door work? What if you find a mate that doesn't want to be a JW? Now you have to balance all the JW crap with your "unbelieving" mate.
Sounds pretty inviting so far, huh? Just read the stories about df'ing, blood, changing policies that have caused major misery and death. Oh, and don't forget the threads and articles on pediphile activity being swept under the rug.
How many prospective JW's actually do the research necessary to see the WTS for what it is? Have you noticed the WTS's flip flop doctrine policy? It's called "new light". That's why third world JW convert populations are growing, and their converts are decreasing in the western world.
Most of the people ARE nice. I miss a lot of them. But handing my life over to the likes of the WTS is not worth keeping friends at the hall. They make you diss your friends and family going in, and they diss YOU going out. How wonderful.
TR