I read this story recently, and I think this woman was incredibly brave for telling it. I hope there is not a huge backlash against her. I dont think there is a mother alive (or at least not many) who hasnt had very similar feelings at some stage. No, she shouldnt have had children, but she did so for her husband, and she was the best mother she could possibly be, despite it not being her "career of choice".
I feel sad for her that she didnt get to feel that rush of maternal joy when she held her newborns. For me its a time I absolutely treasured, and it never lasted long enough!
I have my moments of regret as my children get older and harder to keep up with, and its hard to be a good mother as well as a good wife! (Why did i ever think i could do this!!?? lol) There is a funny saying about parenting toddlers and young children "How is it that I started the day as Mary Poppins, but by the end of the day have slowly morphed into Cruella Deville?!" So my poor hubby gets to meet Cruella Deville at the door when he comes home from work... :o/