Haha I totally know what ypu mean notsurewheretogo - I'm trying my hardest to leave and much happier.
That talk made it seem like becoming inactive is just something people do accidentally though, like: "oops, I'm inactive!"
There was that (probabably made-up) experience of the sister who actually made some real friends at work and went horse riding instead of the meetings. I was thinking: "that soinds like fun!"
It really does seem like the most boring convention though, despite their attempts to shoe-horn a video into every talk, like: "oh that bible mentions birds here - lets have a few minutes of stock footage of birds in case you don't know what they look like."
I don't know how you folks with kids stand it in the heat of that auditorium though - I have to go wander outside.