Why are people so weak in the Organization and unable to keep their partner of twenty years free from the accusations of gossip mongering brothers and sister?. This thread is dedicated to all the couples who suffered great damage when their immature spouse brought in the elders for every wrongdoing their loved ones might have done. The Organization twists the reality of the role the elders play in a congregation. The elders are not policemen and do not have authority to punish anyone, according to the Bible, they can give advice and offer loving counsel but we all know that rarely takes place. So, a husband and wife live on the edge, hoping their spouse does not call the elders to reveal one of her/his vices, what kind of marriage is that? How petty is the Watchtower to create a tattle-tale home environment where the mentally weak publishers live in fear of coming home after a long and hard day of work, only to find two or three elders sitting on his couch with the dreaded yellow notepads. That's a great way to start your weekend off, here are a few stories newbie JWN members probably have not experienced and I hope this warns you of calling in the congregation's A-team! Love you all!
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The Watchtower Society places the wrong emphasis on what a elder is capable of and what a elder is supposedly allowed to involve himself in. Let’s get this out in the open so newbies and former elders can comment on all the crazy Shepherding Calls our elders were forced to Shepherd.
Some Elders are arrogant, I remember talking to one Elder who said “Jehovah’s Organization helps all the elders become a “Jack of all trades” through our great theocratic education (Watchtower-Awake B.S., M.S. and phD), the Slave helped me become a marriage counselor, financial planner, handy man, psychiatrist and psychologist by keeping up with our reading and listening to the friends speak their mind. Jehovah’s Organization has the most competent Shepherds of any religious organization.” We got in to this discussion because a sister had found pornography in her husband’s work office and ran to the elders (She is close to fifty years-old) telling them her elder husband was “at it again”. Our sister decided instead of confronting her husband on his “questionable habit”, she needed to involve the elders with their marital problems. She was uncomfortable with his sexual habits of desiring sex more than once a week and wanting to experiment with different positions and possibly oral-sex and anything else to wake up their stale marriage. Women share their stories about their husband in car-groups, not cool to expose your husband’s secrets to the Flock he’s supposed to be watching over. He was removed from his position and now is focusing on his work, everyone is wondering why he was removed from his position thinking it might be adultery due to innuendo of his wife. He’s a very good man, a gentle brother who enjoy’s studying the magazines from every time period and now he is the focus of gossping women and brothers thinking (one of the most educated Watchtower trained ex-elders) he is evil. Great Job to his babbling wife!
The second example is about a sister whose daughter was getting the Hell beat out of her by a wicked little third generation JW prince. His father once was the leader of our circuit, he carried lots of clout and when his boys got in trouble, he would “quid-pro-quo” them out of trouble. Little prince was six feet tall, weighed about 230lbs, wife 5:6 and 120lbs with bad health problems. The black eyes, bruised wrists and missing tooth were a dead give-away. After close to killing his wife in one of his drunken bouts of JW approved social drinking, she ran home to her former Marine dad. He became full of righteous indignation and said “I am going to kill that little bastard!” his wife instead of trying to talk her husband down to a more mellow state of mind, called the elders and they rushed over like lighting! Instead of focusing on the evil little wife-beating prince, she started to dump on her husband bringing up shit that had no bearing on the present moment. She talked about their unusual sex life, her husband’s record keeping of his business along with petty things he might have done.
He was removed from the “body of elders” because his wife called in the trouble-shooting team of Gomer and Gufus. What happened to the wife beater, nothing really, just a slap on the wrist and told to be a good little boy. His wife was grilled by Organizational wisdom, the basic “Are you keeping your house clean? How is your sexual life, are you a dead lay? What about dinner, do you try to make tasty dishes so he is not so angry? You know being on disability is hard on your husband, why not try to get home faster from your job and work harder around the house? Make yourself pretty and be more positive and try to get him out in the Field Ministry, that’s where Jehovah work’s his magic on us, even if you preach for a hour as a couple, you will find it’s calming affects are strong. Those are real words from that “Jack of all trades Elder” and his buddy Batman (hit in the head by a baseball bat because of impropriety), there has to be another way than bringing in Batman and Goober to help solve your maritial problems, ask somebody on JWN for advice about love, life and marriage please!
Almost always the Watchtower Organization misquotes Paul’s advice to the Corinthian Congregation. The Watchtower pervert’s these passages to mean we are not able to eat the deep things (Spiritual Meat) like “Overlapping Generation”, “Anointed Being De-Anointed or Castrated in the July 15 th 2013 Watchtower, their flip-flopping view of joining the United Nations, JWs can take blood but not give blood. The spiritual sages who played with the lives of the African brothers in Malawi while they allowed the Mexican brotehrs to bribe military officials while joining the military. Deep meaty things Paul was hoping his Corithian children would absorb without asking questions, not that’s total bull-shit! It’s a long thread and I apologize to everyone who reads this but if we are still worshiping God we need to know what Paul was speaking about. What do you think Paul meant when he told the congregation they were not capable of receiving spiritual meat, only spiritual milk.
“2 Dear brothers, even when I first came to you I didn’t use lofty words and brilliant ideas to tell you God’s message. 2 For I decided that I would speak only of Jesus Christ and his death on the cross. 3 I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. 4 And my preaching was very plain, not with a lot of oratory and human wisdom, but the Holy Spirit’s power was in my words, proving to those who heard them that the message was from God. 5 I did this because I wanted your faith to stand firmly upon God, not on man’s great ideas.
6 Yet when I am among mature Christians I do speak with words of great wisdom, but not the kind that comes from here on earth, and not the kind that appeals to the great men of this world, who are doomed to fall. 7 Our words are wise because they are from God, telling of God’s wise plan to bring us into the glories of heaven. This plan was hidden in former times, though it was made for our benefit before the world began. 8 But the great men of the world have not understood it; if they had, they never would have crucified the Lord of Glory.”
1 Cor 3:
“3 Dear brothers, I have been talking to you as though you were still just babies in the Christian life who are not following the Lord but your own desires; I cannot talk to you as I would to healthy Christians who are filled with the Spirit. 2 I have had to feed you with milk and not with solid food because you couldn’t digest anything stronger. And even now you still have to be fed on milk. 3 For you are still only baby Christians, controlled by your own desires, not God’s. When you are jealous of one another and divide up into quarreling groups, doesn’t that prove you are still babies, wanting your own way? In fact, you are acting like people who don’t belong to the Lord at all. 4 There you are, quarreling about whether I am greater than Apollos, and dividing the church. Doesn’t this show how little you have grown in the Lord? [ a ]
5 Who am I, and who is Apollos, that we should be the cause of a quarrel? Why, we’re just God’s servants, each of us with certain special abilities, and with our help you believed. 6 My work was to plant the seed in your hearts, and Apollos’ work was to water it, but it was God, not we, who made the garden grow in your hearts. 7 The person who does the planting or watering isn’t very important, but God is important because he is the one who makes things grow. 8 Apollos and I are working as a team, with the same aim, though each of us will be rewarded for his own hard work. 9 We are only God’s coworkers. You are God’s garden, not ours; you are God’s building, not ours.
10 God, in his kindness, has taught me how to be an expert builder. I have laid the foundation and Apollos has built on it. But he who builds on the foundation must be very careful. 11 And no one can ever lay any other real foundation than that one we already have—Jesus Christ. 12 But there are various kinds of materials that can be used to build on that foundation. Some use gold and silver and jewels; and some build with sticks and hay or even straw! 13 There is going to come a time of testing at Christ’s Judgment Day to see what kind of material each builder has used. Everyone’s work will be put through the fire so that all can see whether or not it keeps its value, and what was really accomplished. 14 Then every workman who has built on the foundation with the right materials, and whose work still stands, will get his pay. 15 But if the house he has built burns up, he will have a great loss. He himself will be saved, but like a man escaping through a wall of flames.
16 Don’t you realize that all of you together are the house of God, and that the Spirit of God lives among you in his house? 17 If anyone defiles and spoils God’s home, God will destroy him. For God’s home is holy and clean, and you are that home.
Forgive for the lenght of the thead, the goal is to inform newbies and get some of the elders and elder's wives here to bring up your past experience with crazy publishers using the thread of "I am going to call the elders on you!"
With great love to everyone on JWN, your Aunt Connie.