I think that all of you would agree that the adherence to the Pauline letters as a rule is harmful. The 12/1/1972 W had a Question from Readers about oral sex.
They reference Romans 1:18-27 and they state "In discussing sexual practices, the apostle provides us a principle that
helps us to reach a right conclusion. He refers to “the natural use of
the female,” which some were abandoning in favor of what is “contrary to
nature,” thus satisfying “disgraceful sexual appetites” and “working
what is obscene.” The apostle specifically
deals with homosexual practices, condemning such. But the principle
stated—that the satisfying of sexual desires can be “natural” or can be
“contrary to nature”—applies just as well to the question under
consideration."
Then they say: "It is not our purpose to attempt to draw a precise line as to where what
is “natural” ends and what is “unnatural” begins. But we believe that,
by meditating on Bible principles, a Christian should at least be able
to discern what is grossly unnatural"
"What if certain married couples in
the congregation in the past or even in recent times have engaged in
practices such as those just described, not appreciating till now the
gravity of the wrong? Then they can seek God’s forgiveness in prayer and
prove their sincere repentance by desisting from such gross unnatural
acts.
It is certainly not the
responsibility of elders or any others in a Christian congregation to
search into the private lives of married couples. Nevertheless, if
future cases of gross unnatural conduct, such as the practice of oral or
anal copulation, are brought to their attention, the elders should act
to try to correct the situation before further harm results, as they
would do with any other serious wrong. Their concern is, of course, to
try to help those who go astray and are ‘caught in the snare of the
Devil.’"
All of that because Paul used the word "physikos" translated Natural. Is it right that his letter can be taken in a context and culture that we don't know from a time long ago and applied today to where elders think they need to correct a couple?