Searcher:
Active J.W.'s are in two camps IMO;
1) The end is so near you can almost smell the paradise
2) Just live life each day - if the end comes, it comes. If not, I have the resurrection hope.
I always felt like those on #2:
Having known of past 'unfulfilled expectations' (back then I didn't dare calling them what they were - false prophecies) and also having in mind that Jesus said that no one could know when the end would come, I've always been less than overhyped thinking the end was nigh. That worked out in my favor, I was able to be less deluded.
Eden