Posts by Roski

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Why Chinese Mothers are Superior

by skeeter1 in

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friends

below is a wall street journal article on oriental parenting.

see similarities to jw parenting?

be in a school play.

Roski

The article tells only a small part of the 'life story'. The mothers are very competative with each other and the sucess of their child is tightly bound with their own self esteem, and they will go to great lengths to keep this in tact. The mother is also usually answerable to the grandparents (father's role is much more limited).

While the kid's lives are highly controlled, they learn to be manipulative at a very early age - learning to get what they want (now days mostly the latest high-tec stuff) while allowing the mother's ego to remain intact (somewhat). They know how important their scholastic results are to mum so mum will give in to their demands. Phones and the net also allow them to play both ends against the middle in a very sophisticated manner from a very early age. Many also know if they can't get things correct they can cheat - and that is OK, too.

Of course the ones that don't learn (or can't) play the game for some reason dip out in a big way (or go and live overseas away from the family).

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G'day from Oz - My Story

by Gemmel in

hi, i've been lurking for a few days reading the site, interesting stuff ;).

i've been out of the org for 23 years, i was 27 i left an agnostic and became an atheist many years ago.

i knew i was going to leave for 7 years before i did but had stayed in because i didn't want to hurt my family, it hadn't occurred to me that they might shun me.

Roski

finallysomepride - you have a PM

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Unity and Jehovah's Witnesses

by stuckinamovement in

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friends

faithful people will tell you that unity worldwide is one of the identifying marks of the true religion.

jehovahs witnesses will especially point to the unity of belief no matter where you go as proof that they are gods organization.

as i sat listening to the service meeting part last night about our unified organization it hit me........... the largest group of unified people is within an army.

Roski

Just on the military theme - when my husband was in the military (not a western country), for long periods of time they were made to dig holes and then fill them in again. He says this was to reinforce blind obedience and to teach the soldiers not question whether an activity was worthwhile or not - the benefit of this being that when told to kill they would simply obey and not make a value judgement. It broke down their ability to think individually - according to him.

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Japan closed down 638 Congregations losing 5,337 Publishers....any ideas why? Internet?

by Witness 007 in

japan had incredible increases in the 80's and 90's of 20-30 thousand publishers a year until it collapsed in 1998....figure since then till 2011 have been going down.. 1998 -222,912 publishers -3,802 congregation.

9 years later.. 2006 -217,519 publishers -3,164 congregations {loss of 5,357 publishers closed 638 congregations} .

{note that japan publishers average 31 hours a month compared to world 15 hours}.

Roski

Internet, high stress (intense) lifestyle plus in Asian countries (at least the ones I know) fads tend to come and go in waves somewhat more than the west. They rode high initially on zeal (+ competition) then reputation (competition again)..then other things factored in.

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Australian Convention Pioneer family Experience - We found our vegetables in the gutter..why do they wanna be Martyrs?

by Witness 007 in

a couple years ago district convention - a pioneer family with two kids explained how they had ran out of funds and had no dinner...as they turned the corner out witnessing they saw a vegetable truck had spilled some produce in the gutter and so "jehovah provided in our time of need..." i felt like yelling get a job you bum stop starving!!

not encouraging.

this week an elder with pnemonia discharges himself from hospital, promising to remain home...so he can go out preaching!

Roski

Broken Promises/life is too short - thank you for your thoughts.

Chicken Little - I remember many years ago my father telling me that one day while out witnessing he felt an overwhelming need to visit a local brother and turned around from going home to visit this person who apparently had some issues to resolve. The next day the brother died. I can remember thinking at the time that god/a higher power does not discriminate, but uses whomever to help any person in need - this may be in any organisation/individual etc. I was quite young at the time and a zealous pioneer, but that experience clicked with me and from then on I questioned the 'exclusivity' of the WTS as God's (only) organisation. I've seen and heard of many such situations since - sometimes to do with JW's and sometimes not. The millionaire story and other self-congratulatory nonsense I do not believe - however... and I've heard lots of those!

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Australian Convention Pioneer family Experience - We found our vegetables in the gutter..why do they wanna be Martyrs?

by Witness 007 in

a couple years ago district convention - a pioneer family with two kids explained how they had ran out of funds and had no dinner...as they turned the corner out witnessing they saw a vegetable truck had spilled some produce in the gutter and so "jehovah provided in our time of need..." i felt like yelling get a job you bum stop starving!!

not encouraging.

this week an elder with pnemonia discharges himself from hospital, promising to remain home...so he can go out preaching!

Roski

BD - it is tragic but unfortunately not unusual - it was their way of life (and mine too at one time). Even as I said "..don't go to the convention..", I knew they would be thinking that I would say that due to my 'poor spiritual' state - no longer 'relying on Jehovah'. I felt guilty afterwards for not being more forceful, but that is coming into focus as I've tried to help my mother in the intervening months only to find she is more than willing to be swindled out of her money by her 'spiritual' friends (dementia aside).

MrMonroe - the mysterious millionaire story was perpetuated by the elder giving me all the grief atm

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Australian Convention Pioneer family Experience - We found our vegetables in the gutter..why do they wanna be Martyrs?

by Witness 007 in

a couple years ago district convention - a pioneer family with two kids explained how they had ran out of funds and had no dinner...as they turned the corner out witnessing they saw a vegetable truck had spilled some produce in the gutter and so "jehovah provided in our time of need..." i felt like yelling get a job you bum stop starving!!

not encouraging.

this week an elder with pnemonia discharges himself from hospital, promising to remain home...so he can go out preaching!

Roski

My father was ill with what the doctor diagnosed as severe bronchitis. He was told to stay indoors until he improved as the weather was cool/windy and lots of flu around. He went to the convention on Friday and came home sick. I spoke to him on Saturday and was astounded that he and my mother would be so irresponsible as to go to the convention - I had seen them the previous week and advised him to follow the doctors advice (worried that he would go to the evening meeting again). I concluded our conversation on Saturday by saying "and don't go to the convention tomorrow..." I needn't have worried - he died early Sunday morning.

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Moral Dilemma

by Mattieu in

excuse me so called holy spirit directed governing body; what do you do when you discover that a long term hospital liaison committee elder who gives talks at all1 day assemblies, 2 day assemblies & district assemblies and is quite prominent n the victorian/nsw circuit, is addicted to pornography, particularly under age and bestiality porno?

and oh, if you have print outs of his internet log ins and internet history fully detailing his log ins from his work computer???

and im not talking breach of privacy, im talking his breach of work usage of computers, of which im in charge of the it.

Roski

Aside from those issues involving the workplace - Boyzone made a good point, he is a deviant and therefore will be acting out in some form in his non-working life. From what you say it seems as if he is 'projecting' a lot and this may involve unjust JC procedures or it may involve his own behaviour with (young) women, and most likely women who are at risk in some way.

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Video based on "Kingdom Control". It's short but to the point. Seen it?

by Wasanelder Once in

i just posted a short video with the soundbyte from the talk in the thread on kingdom control.

here's the link.

i don't know if i can embed it properly:.

Roski

mochamint22 - I have had the same experience - they really came in for the kill after my father died, and yes - I couldn't believe how obvious they were about their intentions. If they are really sincere about getting back the lost sheep/whatever - they certainly go about it in a strange way as they'll never get me back nor the people who know what they have done. One of the "legal" brothers from bethel visited my mother last week - made a long journey to do so - so no doubt she has signed away her life's work. Odd thing is - inheritance is a common theme throughout the bible and yet they can disregard the concept when it means money in their coffers. Brings to mind the idea of gnats and camels.

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Video based on "Kingdom Control". It's short but to the point. Seen it?

by Wasanelder Once in

i just posted a short video with the soundbyte from the talk in the thread on kingdom control.

here's the link.

i don't know if i can embed it properly:.

Roski

Cabasilas - thank you