I know of the pain of war...my gran lost her husband because they weakened him when he was a prisoner of war in Singapore. My older brother and sister lost their father in the 90's when there was ethnic cleansing of the muslims and he was rounded up and killed along with the rest of his male family.
Why oh why would anyone want to go thru war again when the solution is only a temporary one and down the track we're only going to have to war again!