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  We are an Evil Aposta-Family

  by Skinnedsheep in

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  2. friends

  in the last 6 months my family and i have stopped attending cold turkey.

  it is incredible to me to see how our so called friends have dropped us like we were a snake covered in spiders.

  we actually havent really said anything to anybody about why we stopped.

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  Skinned, congratulations! Much love to your family. You have a bright future ahead!
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  Advice on fading needed

  by wallievase in

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  2. friends

  these 2 options are before me right now-.

  1. write a letter to the elders and my family, not da myself but basically saying i have too much going on in my life and am confused, so that they will stop bothering my wife and stop asking me questions all the time.

  after i write the letter continue to go to the hall less and less.... 2. appease my wife.

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  I agree: NOTHING IN WRITING. It's the same as handing your enemy a box of bullets.

  Using scriptures to debate still brings on the "A" label, so if you go that route you must be inordinately calm and not appear to be upset. Just ask her opinion on the discrepancy and see where she takes it.

  UNSEEN made-up illnesses are the best. Migraines bring on great sympathy (perhaps triggered by mold in the kh ductwork? someone's perfume?). Irritable bowel or repeated bouts of diarrhea bring instant sympathy. Depression is a hands-off area for the elders so that works if you are not overly cheerful.

  Best wishes for your fade/withdrawal journey!
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  67 minutes - time to help

  by LouBelle in

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  2. friends

  in south africa we have mandela day on the 18th of july - it was his birday and people in sa celebrate it by spending at least 67 minutes helping someone or helping a cause.

  this year, my friends and i are helping out a horse sactuary in desperate need of food for their animals.

  we are ording in hay, shandy chubes and hay presto.

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  Great thread!

  Wouldn't it be cool if we grouped together to assist others in similar ways? Many good-hearted people are duped into the borg because they truly want to help people. We never lose that inner desire to help others, and it's true that there's no better way to make yourself happy than to help others.

  This could actually serve dual purposes:

  1. Providing REAL HELP as opposed to not teaching nonsense to our fellow citizens of the earth (atonement?)
  2. Bringing joy to our own hearts (healing)

  Associating with other helpful people would also provide an open platform to calmly (no wild "apostate" behavior that would allow gb to finger-point) explain how we love to help people but were not "allowed" to do this type of work when we were under the borg's influence. People need their eyes opened and this would be a nice side-effect, perhaps.
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  So many dubs

  by Nosferatu in

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  last weekend while i was checking out garage sales, i swear i saw about 10 "pairs" of dubs doing their important work.

  they were handing out the pamphlets for the convention.. i've never seen that many in one weekend.

  was there some sort of special, motivational request for doing the preaching work last weekend?.

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  Seems to have been another one of their "special" campaigns to invite everyone to the District Regional Convention.
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  Recent Visit with my Wife's Family

  by Imminent1975 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been inactive for going on five years after an accerated fade.

  my wife followed shortly after.

  we recently went to visit her parents that know that we don't go to the meetings, and it bothers them but they don't know what to do, as they really can't do much.

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  I like your logic, Problemaddict!
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  Lost and Found

  by Vivere in

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  2. friends

  well after an almost 4 year sucessful fade including a move, they found me.

  i was not home at the time, but they were asking all sorts of questions about me and my family, who lives where etc.

  of course it was one of the busybody families in my former congregation.

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  Vivere, they only have the power you give them. Try to move out of your jdub persona and think like a free person (I know what it's like to feel the instant panic, believe me). They are just nosy busybodies without the nerve to leave the cult. Try to feel sorry for them rather than fear them, and politely inquire about them and brush off attempts to query you. Take the high road. You have the strength and the smarts to live life as you deserve. Sad they do not.
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  God's dates, not ours

  by donny in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  as a former jehovah's witness, i now sit back and marvel how well i had been suckered into this religion.

  and to think that their own worst critic was their own publications.. in 1968 some 43 years had lapsed since their last firm prediction on when armageddon would occur.

  they had predicted 1925 would see an end to the worlds suffering and a new world for the true believers, i.e.

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  Saving this, thanks!
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  How do you feel ethically about the Governing Body?

  by runForever in

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  if something terrible were to happen to the members of the current gb would you feel bad?.

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  I only feel ethically about organizations that are ethical. gb is the antithesis of ethical.
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  I want it to be the truth, but I don't believe it. Unless I do but don't want to. Huh?

  by noonehome in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  if i did believe, i think i could have what it takes to be what's considered a 'good jw'....being a missionary actually really appeals to me.

  but obviously i couldn't live that life if i didn't believe in my heart it's the truth.

  i'm young, and interested in doing some kind of humanitarian work... kind of a secular equivalent of "serving where the need is greater.

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  Noonehome, your feelings are perfectly normal! To be young and have a love for people and want to do big things to help is really cool. Check out the CNN Heroes blog, there are wildly diverse groups from all over the globe doing great things who are nominated each year, and usually contact info is provided.

  Best wishes! Do something great for humanity, not for the wts real estate billionaires club.
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  Want a good laugh?

  by ilikecheese in

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  http://www.conservativerefocus.com/index.php/2014/06/09/jehovah-s-witness-organization-now-promoting-one-world-government-and-need-for-new-world-leader.

  someone on my facebook posted this.

  some dummy got a pamphlet that talked about the convention, the "one world government and who can lead" pamphlet.

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