AGAIN!
I must BTTT! So may lives, so many faces, yet what is the outcome?
Will I be here 4 years from now "helping" those along?
I am feeling very melo dramatic...yet I lost my family, and I am READY TO FIGHT back!
Will we walllow or FIGHT?
wendy
Posts by Wendy
-
44WORLDWIDE LETTER MAILED
by Dogpatch inon or about june 30, 2002, thousands of jehovah's witness elders around the world received a letter from "the worldwide .
christian community" urging them fully to take on their voluntary responsibility as "shepherds of the flock of god" .
with respect to child molestation that occurs among their "flock.
-
-
-
44
WORLDWIDE LETTER MAILED
by Dogpatch inon or about june 30, 2002, thousands of jehovah's witness elders around the world received a letter from "the worldwide .
christian community" urging them fully to take on their voluntary responsibility as "shepherds of the flock of god" .
with respect to child molestation that occurs among their "flock.
-
-
Wendy
Page 10?????
No wonder everyone is leaving
WTF?
wendy
-
71
Cygnus is in bad shape
by Cygnus injust so i don't miss anybody who is interested.... my results from the ekg and the echogram showed a severe leak in a heart valve.
i am going for an angiogram on the 15th but the cardiologist says the liklihood is great that i will need open heart surgery.
rare for a 30 year old but if necessary, it is necessary.. no word yet on the results of the blood work for liver enzymes and hepatitis.
-
-
Wendy
Cyg
Let me buy ya a soda mmmmkay? I will be there in half an hour
Serious...if you need me I am very, very close
wendy
-
44
WORLDWIDE LETTER MAILED
by Dogpatch inon or about june 30, 2002, thousands of jehovah's witness elders around the world received a letter from "the worldwide .
christian community" urging them fully to take on their voluntary responsibility as "shepherds of the flock of god" .
with respect to child molestation that occurs among their "flock.
-
-
Wendy
Waiting,
If you were ever at a DC and handed an apostate pamphlet along with say 20 other active JW's . Would you tell the others that you either A-) Threw it in the trash, or B-) Never accepted it in the first place?
That was the point I was trying to make. If it is read, they are not going to openly admit that they read it. I am assuming all of this of course, but based on my years as a JW I am sure it is a spot on assumption.
wendy
-
49
I'm Gone
by TR in.
.
those who want to keep in touch via email certainly are welcome to.. i've just had it up to my gills with anti-american b.s., and i have little if any interest in jw issues lately with the exception of silentlambs.. see ya.. tr.
-
-
Wendy
<-----pours a ice cold one for TR.
Let the dust settle, then come back I love ya man, and I am giving you my Bud Light. cough**piss water**
wendy
-
44
WORLDWIDE LETTER MAILED
by Dogpatch inon or about june 30, 2002, thousands of jehovah's witness elders around the world received a letter from "the worldwide .
christian community" urging them fully to take on their voluntary responsibility as "shepherds of the flock of god" .
with respect to child molestation that occurs among their "flock.
-
-
Wendy
Nancee,
At the bottom of the letter was the URL to the silentlambs website.
Room 215,
It is expected the brothers throw the letter in the trash, they must state tehy did this. I think that the ones who read it are way more than those who trash it. As I said in my first post here, there are many dedicated elders, those are the ones this letter is for. I know that Brooklyn will advice the elders to dismiss this as work of apostates, but a seed of doubt will be planted by Brooklyns own words: "Please be assured of our continual prayers on YOUR behalf as YOU carry out YOUR weighty responsibility to sheperd the flock that God entrusted to YOUR care."
wendy
-
44
WORLDWIDE LETTER MAILED
by Dogpatch inon or about june 30, 2002, thousands of jehovah's witness elders around the world received a letter from "the worldwide .
christian community" urging them fully to take on their voluntary responsibility as "shepherds of the flock of god" .
with respect to child molestation that occurs among their "flock.
-
-
Wendy
I guess I am slower then you ladies!
Path,
Same question, how do you know that there are those who are non christians(right word?) representing the Worldwide Christian Community? lol
wendy
-
51
Norwegians Harm Whales
by Magog innorway to defy ban, resume whale exports to iceland.
by inger sethov .
oslo (reuters) - norway said friday it would defy an international ban on commercial whaling and resume exports of whale meat to iceland after a 14-year break.
-
-
Wendy
LOL @ Magog
Errr that was sarcasm right?
wendy
-
22
Update on Mom
by Mulan inyesterday, before we went to dinner at mak and sabine's, a friend called me from the kh to warn me they had mom on the phone link for the meeting (their meeting is at 4pm).
i went downstairs to see what she was up to, since i had taken the phones out, to stop her from calling everyone in town to complain about the 'abuse she was suffering' at the hands of her daughter (me).
she was standing over the speaker phone (i had taken the hand set off), and she was furiously pushing buttons, and sobbing.
-
-
Wendy
Mulan,
I agree with Princess, they are not going to just let her sign over DPOA over to this woman. Trust me, those in the geriatic community are very familiar with how the mind works after a certain stage. I have seen people come into the nursing home, or even into the assisted living part of the home against their will. It is really sad, but the BEST thing for all involved. She will adjust, and if Lana continues to be a problem for her, they can decline her to visit. And they can do that...you can do that if she is admitted. Perhaps without her control, your mother may lean on you more and you can have a semi normal relationship. You gave it your best shot, you tried and continue to try. There is only so much you can do, and as JT said, add the wacky religion in the mix and you are doomed.
((((((hugs))))
wendy
-
22
Update on Mom
by Mulan inyesterday, before we went to dinner at mak and sabine's, a friend called me from the kh to warn me they had mom on the phone link for the meeting (their meeting is at 4pm).
i went downstairs to see what she was up to, since i had taken the phones out, to stop her from calling everyone in town to complain about the 'abuse she was suffering' at the hands of her daughter (me).
she was standing over the speaker phone (i had taken the hand set off), and she was furiously pushing buttons, and sobbing.
-
-
Wendy
Mulan,
That is the Baker Act I was talking about. The other day, when she was going crazy and called the police, she could have taken her then by saying those two words. It is a temporary, 24 hour(maybe 48) stay in a mental hospital so she can be evaluated. In this facility they will be able to evaluate her and then place her in a home. To the best of my knowledge, this is for every state. But do a search and see if it is active in your state.
As for getting her dressed and taking her...perhaps you should do that. Get her all dressed, tell her you are taking her to lunch, forgetting to mention you are taking her for a psych consult(that way you aren't lieing) then when she is in the car tell her. From what you said she will go ballistic, then YOU call the police. Or you can enjoy the good days with her, and next time she acts up insist they commit her.
As for not getting any financial support from her now, you have many options to do so. You CAN claim her and your father as a dependent, if their income is unable to support them outside of your home. It is highly unlikely that it does, when you include 24 hour aide care that they would be paying out of pocket if not for you. Also there are grants that you can apply for to add medical supplies, even new heating systems, air conditioning, new flooring, you name it! The social worker should alert you to all of this, if she has not she is being shabby. If your mother does go into a home, they usually have an individual social worker for each residence. From what I have heard, be prepared to getting many calls from her until your mother is settled in. Trust me though, they are used to seeing many different personalities, they will be able to see what she is doing. It may take a bit of time, but they will see.
wendy