Simon,
I just read that thread lol. I thought I would just jump right in and see what all my fuss was about. I agree with you, it was of adult nature, and a question I would have attempted to answer, if I saw it. My opinion will remain though, the title in itself though innocent as it may be, does turn the stomach a bit. Who would walk into a coffee house and ask that question? Perhaps if it was buttered up, it would be answered. I have talked about sex on this forum a few times. I also know that if I want to talk more about sex, and get "down and dirty" with it, this is not the place.
So the cum thread has been pushed to the 10th page...what will the next sexually explicit thread say, and how long will it stay on page one? We all have different tolerance levels. All I know is if I was an ex Jw and happened upon this board, I would leave. When I came here, it was not like this. The worst comments made was when Larc said a woman was like a taco, and a newbie wanted to nurse off me because my handle was mommy. Now look how it has changed...def not for the better.
I have to tell you, and you must agree, that I don't email you every time I feel upset about a subject. I feel like I would be running to Daddy. I feel you do the best with all that you can, and sometimes make mistakes, even admiting to them. Yet, how hard is it to see that THAT subject line is offensive? How hard would it be to edit it out? Just an example, you could have put...Sexual dysfunction question...I do not fully understand what you are dealing with, running a forum as large as this. Please accept this as coming from those too shy to say this puiblicly. The discussions I have had with ex jws who post here are frightened to publicly state opinions lest they be trampled. Much like your wife feels at times. I guess I speak for the silent majority, who feel they will be attacked for stating the obvious, yet are not strong enough to come forward themselves.
wendy