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  WindRider needs your love and support

  by Skeptic in

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  windrider is seriously depressed today, dangerously so.

  she really needs your support, friendship and encouragement.

  she would have posted on the board herself, but her system is down.

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  Xena

  Hey WindRider,

  Sorry to hear you are having problems and feeling down! Hope things get better...and remember with a guy like Skeptic around things can't be all bad

  Always enjoy your posts and look forward to hearing more from you!
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  my family, my da status and my s-i-l (VENTING)

  by peaceloveharmony in

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  well, i had a run in with my sister in law this weekend.

  nothing direct between me and her since she shuns me.

  but my brother dave told me something that just pissed me off to no end.

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  Hey mony...not much I can say that hasn't already been said. Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you...I am with Tim, you can be part of our family anytime!!!! there is a top bunkbed with your name on it!

  edited to say: Glad to see you are doing better today Tina
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  I need you tonight my friends,Please

  by Valentine in

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  this danny pearl thing has brought home memories of murder to me(my 1st husband) please,please.......just say you care right now-nothing else.......please.i'm having a real emotional night...i had no one before.............t. todays affirmation:.

  the complete lack of evidence is the surest sign that the conspiracy is working.

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  Hope you are doing better today Tina! xxx and ooo
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  Tough Question for ExElders...

  by Xena in

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  with a friend suddenly confronted with the prospect of being disfellowshiped recently it got me wondering about how an elder feels the first time he disfellowships someone.. the first time you disfellowshiped someone was there regret?

  sadness?

  or a sense of justice?.

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  I just wanted to thank everyone for their honest and well thought out answers. When you see someone confronted with this type of thing you like to try and get inside the minds of the people involved. lol the only problem is that ya'll are most likely not your "typical" elder types or you would still be JW's But I do appreciate your allowing me to see inside your minds on this matter! It has been very interesting, informatative and educational.

  Skally sorry if this subject opened up some old wounds for you! If my friend gets d/fed I will certainly let you know if they say anything like that to her!

  ROFL 144,001 don't worry it isn't permanent!
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  Tough Question for ExElders...

  by Xena in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  with a friend suddenly confronted with the prospect of being disfellowshiped recently it got me wondering about how an elder feels the first time he disfellowships someone.. the first time you disfellowshiped someone was there regret?

  sadness?

  or a sense of justice?.

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  To tough huh guys????
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  Tough Question for ExElders...

  by Xena in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  with a friend suddenly confronted with the prospect of being disfellowshiped recently it got me wondering about how an elder feels the first time he disfellowships someone.. the first time you disfellowshiped someone was there regret?

  sadness?

  or a sense of justice?.

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  With a friend suddenly confronted with the prospect of being disfellowshiped recently it got me wondering about how an elder feels the first time he disfellowships someone.

  The first time you disfellowshiped someone was there regret? sadness? or a sense of justice?

  Did you have doubts as to your qualifications to be making this decision?

  Were you nervous, was there any doubt in your mind at all that this was the right decision?

  When it was over did you feel like God's Spirit had helped in the decision making?

  I would like to know how you felt THEN..not how you feel about it now...

  Xena having deep thoughts from a shallow mind...
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  A general apology

  by Seeker in

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  i've been a bit short with people today in the forums, and i shouldn't have been quite so abrupt.

  i get frustrated when i see exjws make the same mistake and join up with political groupthink just as they used to join with governing body groupthink.

  it's all propaganda, as i keep trying to point out, but the fact is that you can believe whatever you want without my input.. i realize i keep harping on conservative hypocrisy lately, but that's because they are in power right now.

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  Now this is what I call a Real Man!
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  Does Looks Really Matter?

  by butalbee in

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  does looks really matter in love?

  would you go out with someone who was not physically attractive if he/she had a big heart on the inside, a great personality, lot's of things in common with, etc...i guess i'm asking what's more important to you the person on the exterior or who he/she really is underneath?.

  lara

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  Hey zug can a handsome man love a rich UGLY woman?
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  Does Looks Really Matter?

  by butalbee in

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  does looks really matter in love?

  would you go out with someone who was not physically attractive if he/she had a big heart on the inside, a great personality, lot's of things in common with, etc...i guess i'm asking what's more important to you the person on the exterior or who he/she really is underneath?.

  lara

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  Can I get an "AMEN" sister Lilacs???

  On the jerk thing...women do not like jerks. Women like men who pursue them and most jerks do this..they present themselves as assertative men who know what they want. You don't know they are jerks into well into the relationship.

  So nice guys get out from behind the computer and go out there and take a chance. Yes you might get shot down from time to time..sorry not everyone is going to want to be with you...you don't want to ask every women you meet out so too not every women you ask out will want to go with you. I have to admit I have a lot of respect for men in this regard...I have taken a few chances and gone up to men before and been shot down..and damn that can hurt! lol talk about a shot to the ego! But I just try to remember that

  A. I am not everyone's cup of tea
  B. It's their loss!!!!

  Small comfort to you men I am sure..but hey I am trying here, ok?

  The jerks get the women because they go after them...not because they are what the women are looking for...think about it...
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  Does Looks Really Matter?

  by butalbee in

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  2. relationships

  does looks really matter in love?

  would you go out with someone who was not physically attractive if he/she had a big heart on the inside, a great personality, lot's of things in common with, etc...i guess i'm asking what's more important to you the person on the exterior or who he/she really is underneath?.

  lara

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  2SYN no you added it up ALL WRONG (typical man)...this thread is saying women don't like nice men...I was stating I do like men who are NICE..those were nice things...

  Now for a man like that I will...bring him breakfast in bed...buy the sexiest lingerie for BOTH of us...make candlelight dinners...send him candygrams...rub his feet while he watches sports...you treat me right and you have a woman who will do ANYTHING for you...it's the circle of life baby

  Now men on the other hand do not appreciate a good woman...NO they want a younger better looking woman who treats them bad...that is why so many men leave their wives when they get older and run out and get them a "newer" model..some hot young thing that only wants them for their money and then they whine and complain about how badly THEY were treated...aaaahhhh pity party for men....how many women do that???? hhhmmm guys????

  Why not try dating a nice, pretty (not supermodel beautiful), woman your OWN age??? Maybe then you would get lucky???