Posts by Xena

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If you could kill someone........would you?

by new boy in

if by just saying the words "you are dead........you are dead.......you are dead".

that person would be dead and gone.

and there would be no one who knew what you did.......could you do it?.

Is it possible to have a intellegent conversation with a JW?

by A-Team in

meaning:

not resorting to name calling, yelling, belittling ones religion, being able to express your ideas, etc.

also, are there any active jw forums that non/ex jws go, and preach the gospel to the jws?

Xena

Yes, as long as you don't talk about religion. Or politics. Or medicine. Or history. Or the weather. Ok, maybe not.

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Soulmates do you believe in them

by fifi40 in

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friends

do you believe in love at first sight?

do you believe that we have a soulmate?

has any one ever experienced either of them

Xena

No and Yes, but I don't believe you just have one.

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What do women REALLY want?

by Abandoned in

ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

so, what do women really want?

Xena

I still love ya Pleasuredome, unfortunately (for you) I'm already taken. Be a trooper.

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Do You Miss Your Sense of Belonging?

by The wanderer in

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friends

do you miss your sense of belonging?what i miss is the sense of belonging and camaraderie that came with .

being one of jehovahs witnesses.

does this mean that i would return?

Xena

I used to miss it until I built up a different social network. And this board is one aspect of it.

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The Little Devil...........

by fifi40 in

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friends

how many of you can identify with the little devil that lurks inside of you.

i have one and sometimes it makes me want to behave in such a naughty way and i get a bit.........erm mischevious to say the least.

please help how do i get rid of this little demon or is he here for life....

Xena

Why would you want to get rid of him?

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What do women REALLY want?

by Abandoned in

ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

so, what do women really want?

Xena

Pleasure, just because a woman is in her 20's or 30's doesn't mean she wants to be treated "shitty".
FHN. really? i expect all women to say that. but then i expect the majority of young women to go for guys who will treat them like that. not because they conciously want to be treated like that, but because subconciously they want a guy who treats them badly because it offers them comfort in that they know what they are getting.
most young women cant stand the thought of forming a relationship with a guy who is gentle, intellegent, deep, sensitive, because it causes unpredictability, it creates uncertainty for the woman in her mind. the challenge is on an intellectual level rather than on an emotional level and most young women dont like that.
but then there are some intellegent, real women. these can be recognised by engaging in a few minutes of conversation, by looking into their eyes and seeing how fresh and positive those eyes and conversations are. these women who dont seek to be hooked emotionaly on a guy, but prefer to engage the intellect.

I think what you are mistaking women wanting to be treated like crap for women who don't think they deserve anything better than being treated like crap. Low self esteem is a big issue with a lot of women. And it effects ones you wouldn't expect to see it in. I have a friend, extremely beautiful woman. Everywhere we go men's head turn, but she felt like she had to get a boob job to feel good about herself. Fast forward to after the boob job, she still has self esteem issues and constantly gets with men who treat her badly. She doesn't feel worthy of being with someone who treats her well. Unfortunately there are to many women with issues like that. And she is perpetuating this in her own daughters, and that is truly a shame!

Conversely I've met men who only seem to be attracted to women who treat them like crap.

Lots of disfunctional people out there.

Really enjoyed your post Twitch.

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Zany Questions from Board Members to Wacky Terry

by Terry in

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friends

okay, go ahead and make my day: ask me anything!.

.

Xena

Do you still have Santa Claus issues?

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What do women REALLY want?

by Abandoned in

ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

so, what do women really want?

Xena

abr : In dealing with two imperfect people, no one can be perfectly right or perfectly wrong.
it makes sense ...

Yea I like that one too...

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What do women REALLY want?

by Abandoned in

ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

so, what do women really want?

Xena

I've always said no one is perfect you just have to decide which imperfections you can live with. I suppose that amounts to about the same thing....

Course that was before I found the perfect man.