Hey happyman, nice to see you drop in again.
Just wanted to point out that the US has three levels of government: Federal, State, and County as well as local governments for cities and towns.
So when you see the Federal government spending Billions on defense, that's because that is their job, that's why we formed it 200 years ago. The State governments are usually responsible for many welfare and health programs (although there are also Federal programs that provide some coverage). And the Counties have health inspections, and etc.
The trouble with governing a country that comprises 50 states, with cultures as different as Alaska and Hawaii to New York, is that different solutions work for different peoples. So that's why State governments usually take care of their own homeless, impoverished, etc. Speaking as a poor person, I only make $18,000 a year, which is not much in Pittsburgh, I know that I can get food stamps, free health care if I didn't have benefits, and some disability payments if I need them (I don't currently, I prefer to take care of myself as long as I can).
What you are talking about is the fundamental difference between the American and European character. We built this country, while you are still dealing with your feudal heritage. This country was built by people who took care of themselves, while you expect your leaders to take care of you. OUr leaders are elected for a reason and for a set period of time, while Sweden still has a monarchy and an established church.
I could go on and on, but neither system is inherently wrong. Both provide services and allow free speech, though, and basic human rights. However, when a king or dictator goes power-mad, they have always sought to crush and terrorize their own citizens. LIke it or not, America has been given its power for a reason. We put it down, before God, that we wanted freedom. And after we paid for it in our own blood during the Civil War, and freed the slaves in our own midst, we have been given a commission to tyry our best to bring freedom to the World. We stood up to the Kaiser in WW1, Hitler and Hirohito in WW2, Stalin and co. during the Cold War (Sweden was glad enough for us then, weren't you?), and now, radical Islam.
We're not perfect, but we never claimed we were. However, if we don't liberate Iraq, who will? Sweden? France? Russia? No, only the USA and Britain are powerful enough and have the moral high ground to reslice the Middle East. Join us, Sweden. You'll feel better about yourselves. Help us liberate the MIddle East from Radical Islam. Put your generals into the public eye as heroes, your king as a Great Emancipator. You'd be amazed at how warm inside you'll feel when you do the right thing.
CZAR