I appreciate your posts, DD, and have never read anything you've said that came off as offensive. I share your sentiments, however. I think back to some of my early-on posts a year ago and am somewhat embarrassed. Purging ourselves of the JW conditioning, that we have all the answers, our view is always right and we'll fight our viewpoint as right no matter what, without any allowance we may be wrong, can be difficult to overcome. It's a process... and no reflection on the character of the person. The men (or women) we come to be as a JW, I believe, is far from our true person, and sometimes it takes us awhile to discover our true self once we figure out we can actually think for ourselves.
The important thing is that we keep asking questions, keep growing, and make adjustments as our knowledge and experiences expand.