In my opinion you should not tell her how you feel especially since you are moving. I went and read some of your old posts. From what I read you don't let many people in your life and she has been a positive in your life. The odds are very high if your tell her or end up sleeping with her it will just ruin the friendship or cause weirdness as you put it. I say keep the friendship like it is.
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she's just a friend
by daytona27 ini was married a long time, divorced and alone for the last couple of years.
i consider myself content.
i've come to terms with being alone and the prospect that i may not be with someone for a good while.
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so are there really co's and elders who are undercover appostates???
by newly unsure inso are there really co's and elders who are undercover appostates??
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I believe there are what you call "undercover elders" that think they can make changes happen on the inside. I think those who believe that are delusional and are wasting their lives away.
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My Wedding is coming up going to invite parents and siblings what to do????
by zamora251978 inhey guys,.
my wedding is coming up and i am going to invite my mom and my dad and the rest of my siblings.
how should i react when my recently new regular pioneer mother starts pitching a fit????
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I sometimes wonder why xjw's subject themselves to this kind of mental abuse. I have read your past posts and if I were in your position they would not get an invite from me. They would read about it in the local newspaper.
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Sirona & DB74 are having a Baby!
by diamondblue1974 infor those that know us and that have been following our jwd love story...we cannot contain the news any longer, we have known now for over two weeks but wanted to wait until we had the last early pregnancy scan to confirm everything was ok. .
today we witnessed a miracle in the making and the ultimate in creativity - the scan confirmed a strong heartbeat and considerable growth since the last scan a fortnight ago.. we are going to be parents .
gary (db74) & dawn (sirona).
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I am so happy for you. It will be unlike anything you have ever experienced.
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what reason do you give your kids for why jw grandma dosnt come to visit?
by looloo indo i tell her that jw granny is a "true christian" that is why she does not come to see you and wicked worldly granny cant keep away because she loves you loads, what the heckers do i say to her ???
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I will tell my son the truth in age appropiate words. From the moment she found out I was pregnant she was determined to make him a JW. I took a hard line early on and told her she will never witness to my son or take him to the KH. She went behind my back while I was on a business trip and took him to the KH. She did not see him again for months until she promised me it would never happen again. She finally agreed but her access is still supervised. I have noticed she seems to have less and less interest in him since she can't take him to KH and she cannot get my sons dad to bend on that subject.
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I cannot believe how brazen some people can be
by unbeliever inmy bf and i have been together for about 2 years.
he has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with.
i am not the jealous type so i never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes.
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Do you know what he's said & how in his communications with her over the years?
He says they stayed friends after the break up and he would see her e/o year and communicate via email every few months. He swears he never crossed the line with her. He communicated with her more than their other mutual friends with the exception of his best friend who he would see all the time. She wanted to remind him of the great love they shared and wrote in great detail of their time together at university. According to her they are soulmates destined for each other. She wrote nothing that implies anything happened romantically between them after the break up. Only how she has pined away for him all these years and if he has been doing the same. Truly very disturbing since they broke up so long ago.
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I cannot believe how brazen some people can be
by unbeliever inmy bf and i have been together for about 2 years.
he has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with.
i am not the jealous type so i never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes.
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she has a point that your not married...... she is grasping at that straw as a sign that he dosent love you the way he loved her or you would be married......... id put a nail in that coffin and do the deed.
I am not going to get married in the hope she will back off. I honestly don't see the point of marriage. We are as close to being married as anyone could be. The only difference is we don't have that peice of government paper.
might be good for bf to cut off all contact with her and to limit his contact with mutual friends for a while.
He is going to cut off all contact with her. Mutual friends not so easy. One of those mutual friends is his best friend and our sons godfather. I am hoping she leaves them out if it.
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I cannot believe how brazen some people can be
by unbeliever inmy bf and i have been together for about 2 years.
he has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with.
i am not the jealous type so i never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes.
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Satanus,
They did not have a nasty breakup and they keep in touch with a lot of the same people from college. The whole college gang tries to meet up every two years and they all keep in touch mostly via email.
Katiekitten,
My BF is thinking along the same lines you are. He told me from reading her letter she is only remembering the good times.
I have decided not to contact her because I don't want to bring any drama into our lives. I know we will be hearing from her again. No one writes a 17 page letter and accepts a 2 line e-mail.
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I cannot believe how brazen some people can be
by unbeliever inmy bf and i have been together for about 2 years.
he has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with.
i am not the jealous type so i never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes.
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For some reason he says she is not crazy. So far I have not e-mailed anything.
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I cannot believe how brazen some people can be
by unbeliever inmy bf and i have been together for about 2 years.
he has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with.
i am not the jealous type so i never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes.
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My bf and I have been together for about 2 years. He has this ex gf from college who he stayed friends with. I am not the jealous type so I never cared even though he had a problem with me being friendly with my exes. Anyway to make a long story short she sends him this 17 page hand written love letter proclaiming her undying love saying she never stopped loving him, she wants to be with him. She writes chapter and verse of their whole relationship back in college. The part that really pissed me off is when she said that she would love our son as her own if he left me. Then in the next sentence she writes how devastated she was when she found out I was pregnant and was even more heartbroken when he left London and moved to the US. Her marriage had just ended right around the time I got pregnant but she wrote how she thought she had lost him forever. She wrote that she decided to confess how she really feels because it's obvious he has no intention of marrying me. I wanted to call that bitch up and tell her that he has asked me to marry him but I feel that living together is the better option for us. She made many assumptions.
This letter freaked him out because they broke up 15+ years ago. He wrote this 2 line e-mail telling her what they had was in the past and had no future together. She writes a pathetic response saying to really think about it and she will respect any decision he makes. He told me he will have no further contact with her.
Can you imagine someone actually pulling a stunt like this. We're a family and have a child and she thinks she has a right to do something like that. I wonder if she is mentally ill or something. Only someone with a few screws lose would do something like that and write the shit that she did. I think she would just die if she knew I read the letter. You think I should e-mail her and mock her and what she said?