It is true that
the principle of shunning and Dfs, hurt a lot of former JW.s And that this behavior
have led people to suicide, and have caused them mental trouble. But it is not
a weapon that could kill their enemies only, it can Couse even them who chose
to stay enormous pain and nervous problems.
In my case,
my wife and I have created a big family. Six children and today five
grandchildren. None of us is any longer a JW, except my wife!!! She is supposed
to shun all her children, not letting them come to our big house, not letting
them sleep over in our house (none of them has married). When some of the
members of the family celebrates Christmas/birthdays and want to do it in our
house, she must leave the house going to “her friends”, doing her service
hours. If she is choosing to stay home on some meeting, because she have all
heir 5 grandchildren at home, there is always one or two giving her a call, to
hear why she didn´t attend that special meeting.
I can tell,
that it is not the rest of the family that is depressed and have nervous
problems with WT shunning and Dfs policy. In fact it hits the user of that policy as
well. I know several families in the same situation. Some of the older members
of the congs, has been forced to move to other cities so that it shouldn´t be
obvious that they still like to meet their children and grandchildren.
Bugbear