DF: Anyway it took a great deal of effort not to punch her in the nose.
Your wife is clearly out of control and her behavior unacceptable.
Resorting to physical violence in return is certainly NOT going to help the situation. I'm glad you restrained yourself.
DF: She also warned me that I am not stronger than Jehovah and that I cannot fight against Jehovah.
Since Jehovah doesn't exist I think you're safe.
I suggest you tell your wife to watch the RC interview of Geoffrey Jackson and then come to her own conclusions.