Posts by GrreatTeacher

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

GrreatTeacher

If you've royally pissed me off, I'm going to have the desire to have sex with you on par with that clump of dirt over there.

You're just not attractive sexually when you're being an ass. Think of it like this equation: being a dick does not equal intimacy which does not cause me to have sexual feelings toward you.

Some women might hold out to punish, but most of the time we're just not turned on by bad behavior. Drop the attitude and we're likely to feel a little more loving towards you.

And, if you can't handle being a nice guy and building trust and vulnerability and an intimate relationship, then you're just not very attractive.

Good luck leaving and finding it elsewhere. If your behavior is the same, you might have some trouble with anybody you're trying to get with.

(Advice not directly about goingthruthemotions. Just general feminine point of view.)

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"And what happened next was simply unbelievable!"

by Terry in

jw
friends

i always sit in the same spot, just outside starbucks in a vestibule area with a table in the air-conditioned space.

i say "always," but not today.. somebody with two laptops and a table filled with business ledgers was in "my" favorite spot!.

so, i took a tiny wooden table inside the coffee shop on a long padded bench next to 3 other identical tables.. as the clickbait banner ads like to say: "and what happened next was simply unbelievable!".

GrreatTeacher

Learning TTATT is often cumulative. You may have just been experience #1.

Or, you may have been experience #10 and actually pushed one of them over the edge!

You might never know, and your Starbucks might now be on their do not call list, but that doesn't necessarily mean your efforts were in vain.

Great story and great storytelling!

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I'm sick of...

by freemindfade in

jw
friends

i'm sick of.... ...having an elder i barely know invite himself over to my house, and bring another asshole elder with him, you know, to "see how i'm doing" f-ck them.

...having same elder with all insincerity approach me at the beeting and before inviting himself over, ask, "how are you doing?

" then when i say everything is great, go ahead and invite them selves over anyway.

GrreatTeacher

I didn't disassociate and I didn't try to fade.

I just walked away, refused to speak to anyone and damn the consequences.

They left me alone. And it's just a crapshoot whether they'll leave you alone or pursue you.

But, the only way to "win" is to just not play their game.

Meaning, I'm drawing a boundary right now and refusing to speak to/cooperate with any elders or JWs about my "spirituality."

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Lumbar Puncture

by azor in

i hate spinal treatment days.

my son is in sedation right now getting chemo into his spine.

the hospital and people here are amazing.

GrreatTeacher

My thoughts are with you. A good parent hurts when their child hurts.

I hope you can soon celebrate good health with your son.

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Another Kim Davis inspired self-invented "gay issue"

by Simon in

what is it about some of these self proclaimed "christians" who go seeking persecution when it don't exist?.

we've had a case locally in calgary where the initial reports sounded like the person had a legitimate claim: a bus driver didn't want to drive the bus in a gay pride parade and said he'd resign if they made him and that the local transit company was threatening him to force him to do it.. except it was all invented ... by him !.

they already proactively told him that there was no danger that he would be asked to drive that bus in the parade (i.e.

GrreatTeacher

We're asking you to up your game You're a poster who has discussions and contributes.

What we are pushing you to do is improve your logic and rhetoric. If you come to a conclusion based off of faultyl logic, a poorly thought out argument or even untrue facts, then your powers of convincing others are weak.

You can do better. If I didn't think you were capable of it, I wouldn't be interacting with you at all.

I had difficulty making a coherent argument when I first began posting here and I was called out. In a factual way and without a lot of cheerleading. But, I kept listening and learning.

Learning about logical fallacies helped me clean up my rhetoric to make better arguments.

We're not trying to be nasty. We're pointing out where you can improve. If I thought it all would go over your head, I wouldn't bother.

I believe if you researched common Logical Fallacies, you would improve your arguments very quickly. Best of luck!

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Another Kim Davis inspired self-invented "gay issue"

by Simon in

what is it about some of these self proclaimed "christians" who go seeking persecution when it don't exist?.

we've had a case locally in calgary where the initial reports sounded like the person had a legitimate claim: a bus driver didn't want to drive the bus in a gay pride parade and said he'd resign if they made him and that the local transit company was threatening him to force him to do it.. except it was all invented ... by him !.

they already proactively told him that there was no danger that he would be asked to drive that bus in the parade (i.e.

GrreatTeacher

Let us know the verdict.

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Another Kim Davis inspired self-invented "gay issue"

by Simon in

what is it about some of these self proclaimed "christians" who go seeking persecution when it don't exist?.

we've had a case locally in calgary where the initial reports sounded like the person had a legitimate claim: a bus driver didn't want to drive the bus in a gay pride parade and said he'd resign if they made him and that the local transit company was threatening him to force him to do it.. except it was all invented ... by him !.

they already proactively told him that there was no danger that he would be asked to drive that bus in the parade (i.e.

GrreatTeacher

And again, so what?

It's as if you are miffed that civics and governance are political.

Umm, that's how it works.

Maybe you are actually upset that the US is extremely polarized poltically right now? I know I am.

But, that's a totally different conversation.

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Watchtower Double Talk September 15, 2015

by LevelThePlayingField in

is this double talk or is it just me?

it's a comment in the sept 15, 2015 wt about higher education:.

11 today, we are blessed with much knowledge of jehovahs works of creation and the outworking of his purpose.

GrreatTeacher

...because smart is a verb...

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Another Kim Davis inspired self-invented "gay issue"

by Simon in

what is it about some of these self proclaimed "christians" who go seeking persecution when it don't exist?.

we've had a case locally in calgary where the initial reports sounded like the person had a legitimate claim: a bus driver didn't want to drive the bus in a gay pride parade and said he'd resign if they made him and that the local transit company was threatening him to force him to do it.. except it was all invented ... by him !.

they already proactively told him that there was no danger that he would be asked to drive that bus in the parade (i.e.

GrreatTeacher

Ratigan, why do you think the Supreme Court has an odd number of justices?

( The answer is: so they never have an evenly divided court. )

I don't understand why you have such an issue with a "divided" court. Why is the existence of 5-4 decisions so disturbing to you?

And I think it's pretty obvious how this situation gets "checked" and by which branch of government.

(It's the Executive branch's job to appoint judges. )

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I never realized how boring I was.

by John Aquila in

as a true believer in the watchtower, i never knew how truly boring i was until being out for a couple of years and then sitting down with a group of jws and having a conversation..

thats what happened this morning.

i decided to go have breakfast at mcdonalds and a group of jws who were out in service and know me also stopped for breakfast and sat down with me and we talked for about an hour.

GrreatTeacher

What an awful thing for your wife to say. I always enjoy your posts and click when I see your name!