Oh Kim, I am so so sorry for your loss(es). Especially at such an emotionally turbulent time. If you still have my phone number please give me a call over the weekend. Even if I am online or out, leave a message and I will call you back. Huge hugs sweety, try stay strong,,,I know it will be so very hard, but many people are holding you up in spirit, and their prayers and love will give you that little extra you need. Draw deep from that well, it is deep and powerful, more than we ever dare imagine. We are all here for you.