I remember way back when I got married we eloped because her parents were states away and could afford to travel and mine were disinterested and we were poor so it made sense. Got back home and a few meetings later and an elder pulls my wife aside or into the back room and asks her if we were messing around since we eloped. Not only was this in very bad tasted since there was no proof or evidence of impropriety but be ask my wife not me. What a scum bag!
May advise to you is forget your boyfriend move away from your parents as soon as you can make a life for yourself and get the hell away from this cult!