ive been married for almost 6 yrs and my husband is a baptized witness and i am not...at the begining of our marriage we lived with his mother and his sister who is married lived above us...and they are all jws...well i tried the study thing and its not in my heart at all....my husband was almost disfellowshipped when we got married...but he was stepped down from his priveledges...which ment he couldnt speak and get involved....well we got on our feet and he hasnt gone to the hall actively in quite some time.....he says he still belives but i dont see it....he has celebrated my birthday with me and i have christmas dinners at our house with my family....but his family is always bugging him about it and he dont want to talk about it with his family about this...i think hes afraid they will disown him and i think its terrible...........his family are very dependant on him in alot of ways....they depend on the kingdom hall for alot of things...and i thik its sad...but i keep my mouth shut when i see things go on with his family....
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J.W's and Divorce
by meadow77 init has become apparent to me, through many of your stories that jw's seem to have a hard time staying with their spouses who leave the borg.
i was wondering if this is just a case by case thing or are they in fact encouraged to leave spouses who no longer believes.
it seems strange that they would encourage that seeing as how we are instructed to stay in marriages even with a non-believer if they are happy to stay in the marriage.