Posts by jillbedford

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

It is a new day and I feel better now with all of your good advise.

The pity party is over now. I have spent all Saturday feeling sorry for myself. There has been a dunkin donut and pizza. I have a marathon to run this next Sunday so I have got to pull it together. My training diet does not include donuts or pizza. (I have a time goal of 2 hours 59 min 59 seconds. My training has been on target to reach this goal.)

Now the cleaning will begin. This should take all day and prevent pity.

Does ibruprofen help a broken heart? Just asking.

To answer the question about changing the locks, I did not want my daughter coming in the house while I was not home. Her Dad has a nice habit of coming in with her, with me not home and going through the frig and checking out my belongings. In the past, he has even run loads of his wash. But the locks were not changed because I was afraid of her. They were changed because enough is enough.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

I know in all honesty that I am a very sexy woman. The picture I post is me and I look like that. But life is not entirely all about sex is about finding some kind of happiness, right?

My huisbeand is not gay but he does not care for me. He does like some of the runner females who are faster than me. I am working hard to lose weight. Maybe I can be as fast as them one day. I run a solid 10 minute mile but maybe I could lose more weight and run a 6 minute mile and win my age division. The overall race winners run a 4 minute mile so I know that would not be possible,. But if I were to lose 50 lbs maybe I could make an inmression on my husband and he would be interested in "that way". Otherwise, I know I am too old and heavy.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Dear Little Toe,

As you know fro, being a witness, sometimes things don't turn out as you expected.

From what I have found, after age 32 or so, if you are interested in only having sex with one who is interested in you, forget it. You are too old and too past your prime.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Thanks ExDub.

You folks are better than any therpist!

I was in a very sad place before and now I feel better,

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Pahpa, I knew you had to be on here, You have no idea how this warms my heart and heals me.

Please IM me!!!!

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Thanks Sunspot!

Your experience is very comforting. I am glad to hear things worked out in the end. It is dear friends who have helped me though this one.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Thanks Richy Rich.

I have given this a lot of thought. I gave her the car I worked hard to get for her. She can keep it. it is in my name now., My attourney tells me to put it in my ex-husband's name now so he will be responsible for the insurance. I plan to follow his instructions.

I have followed your posts and find you a wise young man.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

I did do the best I could. I worked 2nd shift for many years. I did this to provide insurance and college opportunities for my daughter. I called at 10p everyday to make sure she was home. Sometimes she was, sometimes she was not. But lately she has be not on time to school, sometimes not getting to school until noon. But she leaves home at 7:30a. So where is she is the meantime?

I guess the Ex will have to follow her comings and goings now.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Thanks Honesty! You have always been a good friend. It helps that you know who the Ex is.

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Broken Heart

by jillbedford in

my almost 17 year old daughter left to stay with her dad last thursday.

this is the second time she has left due to my strict rules, like 10p school day curfue, get to school on time, keep your grades above a c. she has not kept to my rules, so as a consequence i told her this last wednesday night she has lost driving priviledges of the car i gave her on her 16th birthday.

she said she was leaving to live with her dad.

jillbedford

Thanks guys. You are so much comfort and good advice.

I am thinking about the overtime I worked, because as I mentioned the ex NEVER paid any child support. I was able to provide for her money for college, which she may not be able to take advantage of since she may not finish high school. I provided her own bedroom and her own bathroom. She was ungrateful for any of this, destroying these rooms. It took me 4 hours of cleaning to get these rooms inhabitable.

As far as my husband goes, does anyone have much sex after age 35 anyway? Aren't we past the prime for that?

I own a VERY successful business with my husband so this is our bond. After working for years in an ungratef ul Dilber world I am finally free. He has been a huge asset in the business. So this is our bond, thin as it is.