When I wrote that LT was a stirrer I forgot to add
The question on this thread is subtly different from the others currently bobbing about, but maybe some are blind to that difference, just as they have been blind to LT's musing on this thread. The topic will continue to make regular appearances because it's not settled in society at large, with difference in attitudes and labels (marriage/civil union) according to nation/metropolitan area being well reflected by posters on the board.
Gay bulls... only a hetero would compare himself to the bovine. Us gays will always be that little different and take our cues from those impeccaply dressed penguins.
edited to add: if you can't take being called a bigot, don't post on these threads.