Welcome to the forum Jacqueline. You are here amongst friends.
You say
No one ever would include or invite me in any activities outside the Hall. (In either hall...the first hall that introduced me to the truth nor the second hall we are still in.) The sisters tell me of the wonderful time they all had at such and such baby shower, wedding shower, anniversary party, etc. Not one sister in over 2 years has ever stopped by my home to say "hi." (Other than when they are out in service and happen to be knocking on my neighbors door.)
I 'm sorry, but this is so typical of their mentality.
You say you are very happy married to the jw brother. Well I hope that continues and you have a long life together. Maybe your hubby will see "the light" and join you in time.