my husband and i just got married big mistake he is a wittness and i am not he has been previously married to another wittness. things happened to them so he got kicked out of the church i guess now we met and for 2 years he has not been and now he wants to go back however i do not think it would be a good idea. he is basically told me he would choose the church over me and his son. which sucks for me what do i do?? please help me