I quit thinking about an after life a long long time ago. I am perfectly content living my life in the moment. Try it. You may like it. And guess what OT? I like myself much better now than when i was a true believing theist. I learned a long time ago that being decent, kind, honest and ethical have nothing to do with a belief in a god. Nothing. There are many, many studies which suggest atheists are much more functional than theists. These studies have been referenced many times on this site.
You and your kind do nothing but drag people back into a failed belief system. What they need to hear is live life. Enjoy life. Explore life. Go back to school. Think Analyze, Travel. Eat Drink and be Merry. But you would have them live life based on getting beamed up to the big starship in the sky, sitting around waiting and doing nothing of any benefit.
In addition. let's assume you are right, OT, about the big girl in the sky. My beleiving or not believing hasn't a thing to do with any chance of an afterlife as you think it. If she made me in her image (as theists suggest), then she knows exactly why I am who I am. She and I are OK.
My atheism has been the best thing that ever happened to me. By far. It has released my mind. I am a better person. I do the right thing every day of my life because it is the right thing - not because of any anticipated reward or punishment. Unless and until humans leave religion behind and do the right thing for no other reason than it is the right thing we will never evolve as a species. Religion is the problem, not the solution.
Most of the atheists on this site have gotten sick of preaching and proseltyzing. My nauseous response to the preachers amongst us should never be assumed by you or any other theist as coming from an angry, disillusioned person. Nothing could be further from the truth.