Fish,
Your actions are typical of an immature, self centered, egocentric child who has to be right and always get their way. Is there a Ms. Fish? If so I would love to get a couple of drinks in her and ask her if you ever get over anything or if you have ever admitted you were wrong about anything. I would just sit back, keep the drinks coming, and listen to her rant about you.
You have whined, cried, stomped your feet like Rumpelstiltskin, called people names for 27 pages and 266 posts looking for someone, anyone, who would confirm your childish viewpoint. It doesn't matter that the greater wrong was committed by you, and you have yet to admit to any wrongdoing. Nor does it seem to matter that the consensus view, the legal view, the you started it view, is nearly 98% against your sorry ass.
But keep going. As long as you continue to act so childishly the posters and lurkers and those who dig this OP up a decade from now will see what a churlish, whiney-ass person you are. And avoid you, as I have until this OP.