Hello Marriedtoajw:
I like the many good points that were brought out but I especially liked Jgnat points. I don't know about this or not but when your wife goes out in service could the friends pick her up so she doesn't use the car and saves on gas for you. Could somebody pick up your family and take them to the meetings. Every little bit helps. Hey if Jehovah is suppose to be providing then if he wants her to go to the meetings then he'll find a way for her to get there won't he. As for your sons talk doesn't he know that you haven't been to the hall in years if any, so it shouldn't surprise him if you don't go. Well that's up to you if you go or not. But anyways you have a lot to think about. Good Luck, and take care.
Adventurousone