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  Was I too harsh?

  by chrisuk in

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  hello, first let me apologixe for both my spelling and my grammer in advance, both are not my strong points.. i'll keep this short.

  since i've been a child my mother has studied on and off with jw's ( i'm now 34) so i've been around it most of my life, i studied on and off myself for around 10 years.

  thank's to this site and jwfacts i'll never study or step foot inside a kingdom hall again.

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  Hello ChrisUK:

  I just mentioned to someone else about the March 15th 2012 page 20 paragraph 2 which states " The other shheep should NEVER forget that their salvation depends on their active support of Christs annointed brothers still on the earth." This got under my skin. Who do they think they are to want to take Christs place. I thought our salvation comes through Jesus through God not the annointed. So maybe you could dig up that article and bring that out to her. And another point that someone brought out to you is how can anyone believe but not go to the meetings, field service, or for that matter not even get baptized. Maybe because deep down inside she knows theres something wrong. Only she knows for sure. Maybe you can question her on this. Good Luck on this matter.

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  Introducing Myself

  by DilloTrace in

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  i'm new to this forum and wanted to give everyone a shout out.

  i've been a silent observer of this forum for a long time, but now i feel it's time for me to break the silence and get involved.

  i've been inactive since november of last year.

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  Welcome DilloTrace:

  Glad to hear you escaped the clutches of the WTBTS. It took 20 years but you finally got out. Have you looked up JWSurvey because he has a lot of information on his site about the Society. All the lies they teach are finally being uncovered by sites like JWFacts and even on JWN. So if you don't know the whole story you will soon get it . So get ready for the ride of your life. And congradulations on your new journey your taking.

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  Why do witnesses listen to their GB

  by speargrass55 in

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  hello everyone, i want us to discuss the gbs right to control jws.

  the gb claim, and rf jws believe that they can't understand the bible without help from the gb.

  when you ask them why they listen to the gb you hear stuff like .

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  Hello Speargras55:

  And welcome your a newbie too. Let me just say, if they were truly guided by God then wouldn't they get things right all the time, since God is the all knowing. How many times they have LIED to us. You see God the true God can't and won't lie. So why would he use these men to represent him. You see if God says it once then it should come true shouldn't it? So we need to stop pretending that they have the truth when they tell the LIES to us .

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  Black or white what Racial Discrimination have you experienced?

  by usualusername in

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  i could give you hundreds of experiences but let me kick off with the following.

  i boarded a train at 4am heading to an airport a few weeks ago.

  in my carriage there were at least 100 people.. .

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  Hello Usualusername:

  My husband and I are white, and one time he gave a talk in an all black congregation. We felt a little out of place. Were not prejidice but I think some of them might of been. I could imagine how some black feel when their the only one in the congregation that's black, it must feel a little awkward at first. We should be excepted to embrace all people of all races, it shouldn't make a difference, right? But that's not the case all the time as it was for my husband and I. Everybody should be taught that they put their pants on the same way we do. Their blood is the same color as mine. Maybe someday we'll finally be treated equal, like were suppose to be. So keep up the good work and don't show prejidice to anyone because your the better person for doing so. Take care.

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  Howdy From Texas

  by TexasEX in

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  my name may be a bit premature...because i'm actually still active within the org, but i guess you could say i've already "left" in my heart.

  i'm just scared to take the first steps, because i don't know any "ex's" in my neck of the woods, and i'm very scared of loosing my family.

  i just need someone to talk to.. .

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  Hello TexasEx:

  Just wonderimg how your doing. Drop us a line to let us know your still there. We worry about you okay TexasEx. How are you managing things these days. So you take care of yourself and don't forget to drop us a line that your okay.

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  Fading ... and Feeling Lost

  by What Now? in

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  prior to that we had been in a new congregation for about 9 months, and we were just irregular.

  my husband rarely went, and i would go occasionally with our toddler son just enough to show our faces and keep the elders off our backs, and for the sake of some friendships in our old hall.

  all of the reasons i had for going were just no longer important.

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  Hi What Now:

  Just wondering how your getting along these days. Drop us a line and let us know that your okay. Send your husband our love your way and to you too.

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  Shunning squared

  by Apostating in

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  greetings my fellow warriors,.

  i have not posted my bio yet, i tried but i can't yet.. however this i can share.

  i have been divorced from my jw wife for two years now.

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  Hello Apostating:

  Glad you broke free and I'm sorry for what your going through. The best advice given is don't talk bad about the WTBTS in front of the kids because they'll see the difference for themselves. Just be as loving as you can, because it will all come out in the wash. With your kids you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Well that's how the saying goes, and they'll believe what they want to, so bare with them their only doing what they were taught, it's not their fault. So you take care of yourself and press on to your new life.

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  Hello and my exit story from WTS

  by free2Bme13 in

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  i thought it was fitting for me to share my freedom from the witnesses story on independence day weekend.. i dont have any secret info, just experiences that happened to me and started to open my eyes.. i was a third generation, raised in the truth kid who was never supposed to be born, and then never supposed to graduate high school.

  ive now been out of high school longer than i was in school.. the beginning of the end started a little less than a decade ago.

  i was late 20s at the time.

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  Welcome Free2BeMe:

  I'm so proud of you to finally make the break from the WTBTS. Your finally FREE. I'm glad you got back with your brother and his family. Did he leave because he had some questions about the org. that weren't sitting right with him. Glad that you still have some form of contact with your parents. Maybe someday in the near future you will be surprised to see your parents leave the organization too. Wish you the best in your new journey your about to take. My husband and I left the end of 2012 and were enjoying our new life too. Hope you had a great 4th of July. Take care and we send our love your way.

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  exJW Psychology 101--Keeping Your Cool While Fading

  by Billy the Ex-Bethelite in

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  in an effort to get some help and hopefully help others, i'd like to start this thread about psychology, specifically starting with the subject of anger management.. .

  personally, i don't have much of a temper.

  what i do have, i've learned to control.

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  Hello Billiy:

  Great thread you wrote for us. We can all learn a thing or two from this. It's always good to remain calm cool and collective at all times anyway. What a better way to help those on the inside that who desperately need our help. We have to show them were the ones with the Christian personality. Thanks again.

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  Hi! I'm new here.

  by abbasgreta in

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  i have so enjoyed all your threads and input this last year!

  i really feel like i know you all.

  very briefly, all four of us left da troof exactly one year ago and dissed ourselves within days.

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  Welcome Greta:

  Glad to hear you escaped the clutches of the WTBTS. Wish you much happiness in your new journey. And welcome to the forum.

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